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Well...having a non-christian girlfriend is taxing. I can say that. Not only that but my best friend, who IS a christian, dumped me (more or less) because she's engaged to a guy she went out with after me...like a week after me...and she got engaged the first time she met him face to face...after only a month or less of dating.

My head is spinning...and my blood hurts.

Kinda good for my first post in so long, eh? :XP:

Very interesting at least.





How come there's not a breaking heart emoticon?

my boyfriend doesn't believe in God, and i love him just the same, your not supposed to hate people or w/e if they don't believe in God, i am not going to make him believe in God, its his choice, we just keep our religions to ourselves, its nothing big, hes still my boyfriend and he wont try to make me not believe in God, if she was trying to make you not believe in God, then you should have dumped her but, if not, i honestly don't think that was right

I dunno. It depends.
If a Christian is in relationships for a long term goal. Wanting to find that person they want to marry one day, then I personally can understand breaking up. I don't think a Christian who feels strongly about their faith should marry non believers. Be friends, def. Date...it's your choice.
It wouldn't be fair of me to date a non believer, because I could never go further then dating, into the marriage relm. Unless we both understood that, then I might, but I'm not that kind of dater anyway.
If you're married to someone who isn't Christian, in most cases it eventually becomes this thing where you start distancing yourself from God, unintenionlly at times, it just slowly happens. It's real danger in that kind of marriage.
The same can happen with dating. You have to be careful while dating to keep God in focus. And if the person you're dating isn't Christian, it can be hard for them to accept and agree with you on a lot of things.
I don't have a problem with people dating non Christians. I did momentarily. But I can understand someone not wanting to stay in it.
And yes, you're not supposed to hate someone just because they're not Christian. One of my best friends isn't Christian, actually, most of them aren't. But he didn't say he hated her. He might care about her a lot, but just not feel like he can be in a relationship with if she doesn't believe.

And fyi, just in case it comes across like I am, I'm not trying to attack you about having a non Christian boyfriend, at all. I think that's perfectly fine. I dated a non Christian for about a month, then we ended up breaking up (Not because he was non Christian, other reasons). So I'm not against it. Just trying to explain why I understand people not wanting to be with non Christians.

I'm tired. I'm not even in this guild, I probably shouldn't be posting. And I was probably confusing. Ah well. XP

You did what yo ufelt was right I warrant. I am not going to condemn you or anything. ut heart break comes from any breakup. Unless the person was a genuine bad habit. It willheal as I am sure you know.

As for the whole nonchristian and christian lover thing, I see no issue. Unless someone can give me a bible verse taht says no chrsitian shall love or marry or be close to a non christian, I am going to keep up my relationship with my boyfriend. Well, I would keep it up anyway cuase of the love but sitll.. I see no issue.

Look at it this way... God said no, you said ok, now Lucifer's teasing you... just smile and nod... Ask God to help you with this confusion, and if you really want him to help you with this, he will. I can tell you from just reading your first post, that she iasn't meant to be in your life if she so desires it... you can't control what others do, no matter how hard you may think it is. Just ask the LORD to help... and he will... hey, you may find the right one by letting the girl go... you never know what God has in store!

okay then. that stinks. good luck with that. pray lots.

double borrow!!