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 Posted: Mon Aug 09, 2010 9:06 pm
is it really wrong to have one, or to try and find one? I only ask cause im looking for one or to be one, and some people tend to look down on that.
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Posted: Mon Aug 09, 2010 9:38 pm
A precaution:
Bear in mind that you are asking for the opinions of others based upon their own morals/ethics/standards/beliefs/traditions. As such, you really can't argue against the responses you get, let alone be offended by them.
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Posted: Mon Aug 09, 2010 9:54 pm
I wouldn't if I were you. You're just going to end up hurting yourself in the end.
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Posted: Mon Aug 09, 2010 9:57 pm
how am i gonna end up hurting myself?
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Posted: Tue Aug 10, 2010 9:08 am
Personally, I would love to have one or two. I wouldn't mind being one of somebody . . . Goodness knows that I both love my wife, and could use a boost in my sex life. My libido is drastically higher than my partner, and some release would be goooooooood . . . .
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Posted: Tue Aug 10, 2010 9:54 am
I had one for a while and yeah it was fun but... I did get a little awkward tbh.
If you think you can handle the repurcussions of it all and set some ground rules then then it's up to you XD I mean it's your life
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Posted: Tue Aug 10, 2010 11:18 am
Not phyically, but emotionally. You may say now that feelings won't get in the way, but later on you may want to take the relationship a step further and your "friend" maynot want to. Could you handle being emotionally hurt?
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Posted: Tue Aug 10, 2010 6:27 pm
Kaaos and Giyari have valid points. Ground rules must be in place, agreed upon by both parties, and in place. Still, having done a 3-way with my wife and another individual, I know that having sex without emotion is possible. 3nodding
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Eloquent Conversationalist
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Posted: Wed Aug 11, 2010 1:50 am
I've been through emotional hurt before, i can handle it now.
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Posted: Wed Aug 11, 2010 4:46 am
Magni Prime .... I know that having sex without emotion is possible. 3nodding And it can be a damn good laugh too XD Some of the funniest times I've had were when I was bollocks naked XD
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Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 6:34 am
Wish I could say the same. I was always rather shy in person, and now could really use a FwB, or three. emo Don't get me wrong, I love my wife! Still, my sex drive seems to be several times hers, and some release without emotional risk would be nice.
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Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 3:13 pm
Truly depends on the person. I was there with entirely the wrong person and it was the most miserable experience of my life because it ended up that I was just being used. However I've had friends who are in FWB relationships and everything works out. It's all about outlook and trust. And ALWAYS BE SAFE FIRST!
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Posted: Mon Nov 29, 2010 9:47 am
I think everyone here has made some pretty good points. It does all depend. i've never had one myself, but I sure could use one. ;P My libido has always been drastically higher than my partner, so it would be nice. ;D But personally, I couldn't go through the emotional hurt, if there was going to be some. Been down that road before, and I'm still having trouble coming back. :/
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