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 Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 11:13 pm
So since I was 12, I've labeled myself as bi. (I'm now sixteen). Most of the time I feel like I'm only slightly bi, but mostly straight. However sometimes I think maybe I'm a full on lesbian. And its not like denial, I do like guys, I just I don't know, I'm confused I guess.
Does this happen to anyone else? Like sometimes you think your bi, other times you think you're straight, and other times you think you are full on gay?
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Posted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 11:23 pm
My thoughts are that human sexuality and gender is very fluid. It can change and evolve. Some people who identify as bisexual go through "phases" where they feel more gay or more straight.
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Posted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 12:28 am
dont worry...i feel the same way....
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Posted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 6:49 am
basicly what zero said
im bi but ever since getting engaged to a man ive been more fond of men, probably because i no longer need to find a woman attractive because ive found a perfect companion for myself. i still like women, im just alot more picky about which ones i like in a sexual way
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Posted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 11:32 am
I agree with all of the above, but just keep in mind that if you're sixteen, then your hormones are going berserk and that can complicate your feelings smile lol
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Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 8:18 am
I guess it's a bit of an evolving thing, but honestly it's probably different for each person. We're all individuals, no two people are exactly the same, ya' know?
Personally, i went through a long phase from age 12-13 like that. Though... it's a bit different. You're young, and it's still a bit early to be solid on what you are and aren't. You've got a long time to find out! So don't rush it, and don't worry about it. ^_^
Though... i wouldn't call yourself bisexual unless you've had sex with both genders. You're most likely bicurious seeing your age.
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Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:54 pm
KodiiRaWR I guess it's a bit of an evolving thing, but honestly it's probably different for each person. We're all individuals, no two people are exactly the same, ya' know? Personally, i went through a long phase from age 12-13 like that. Though... it's a bit different. You're young, and it's still a bit early to be solid on what you are and aren't. You've got a long time to find out! So don't rush it, and don't worry about it. ^_^ Though... i wouldn't call yourself bisexual unless you've had sex with both genders. You're most likely bicurious seeing your age. being bi is not about having sex with both genders, its about being sexually attracted to both genders.
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Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 12:57 pm
There's also more than two genders.
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Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:06 pm
Shanna66 KodiiRaWR I guess it's a bit of an evolving thing, but honestly it's probably different for each person. We're all individuals, no two people are exactly the same, ya' know? Personally, i went through a long phase from age 12-13 like that. Though... it's a bit different. You're young, and it's still a bit early to be solid on what you are and aren't. You've got a long time to find out! So don't rush it, and don't worry about it. ^_^ Though... i wouldn't call yourself bisexual unless you've had sex with both genders. You're most likely bicurious seeing your age. being bi is not about having sex with both genders, its about being sexually attracted to both genders.
Exactly, you don't have to have sex with a person to be attracted to them. Sexuality is about attraction, not necessarily physical acts, though that certainly has a hand in things sometimes.
It's rather obnoxious when people are like "You can't know if you're gay. Have you even been with a guy yet?" or "How can you know? You just haven't met the right man yet" or the ever-so-popular "You just need a man that can please you in bed."
But, I digress.
Sex doesn't equal sexual orientation xp
...excuse the random speech, sorry
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Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 3:52 pm
being bi is not about having sex with both genders, its about being sexually attracted to both genders.
Exactly, you don't have to have sex with a person to be attracted to them. Sexuality is about attraction, not necessarily physical acts, though that certainly has a hand in things sometimes.
It's rather obnoxious when people are like "You can't know if you're gay. Have you even been with a guy yet?" or "How can you know? You just haven't met the right man yet" or the ever-so-popular "You just need a man that can please you in bed."
But, I digress.
Sex doesn't equal sexual orientation xp
...excuse the random speech, sorry
I agree razz Although I've never had Sex, I've been with both males and females.
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Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 6:44 pm
well there is a fine line between lust and love xp
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