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 Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 9:16 pm
close to finishing, and then nothing happens?
I'm not talking about like getting bored or anything.
I mean like you really think you're about to have an orgasm, then it feels like you're done. Like going through the whole cycle but skipping the climax stage.
I've had some pretty weak orgasms before, and this isn't it. It just ends, and it's super disappointing. I can't get myself to try again because it often hurts or I'm too tired, etc [reasons why I wouldn't continue after I already finished once]
This only happens to me when I am not using water, which is why I think I've relied on that technique for years.
I feel like I should know why this happens, but I don't. I've also never heard of this happening to other people. neutral
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Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 9:26 pm
This has happened to my lover before, she said it was just because of stress. I know sex is supposed to be "relaxing" but sometimes you have other things on your mind during intercourse.
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Posted: Tue Jul 06, 2010 10:18 pm
Breathe in,
I'm no expert, but I'd say that is normal. No idea how often you do "please yourself", but maybe you should take a break and recoup I suppose. Couldn't hurt to try and wait a day or two, right?
Either way, you aren't the only one. Seemed like the other day I was having this issue as well. But maybe that's because I wasn't all that in the mood to begin with. Anywho.
Breathe out. Proud 06’er. <3
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Posted: Wed Jul 07, 2010 6:22 am
Long~Lost~Dream Breathe in,
I'm no expert, but I'd say that is normal. No idea how often you do "please yourself", but maybe you should take a break and recoup I suppose. Couldn't hurt to try and wait a day or two, right?
Either way, you aren't the only one. Seemed like the other day I was having this issue as well. But maybe that's because I wasn't all that in the mood to begin with. Anywho.
Breathe out. Proud 06’er. <3 The last time I tried it had been 5 days since the last time, so I'm thinking that's not an issue. [And besides, it was an issue before I ever had my first orgasm, so that's also evidence that that's not it] Haha but that would make sense, I just don't think that's my particular problem.
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Posted: Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:42 am
Yeah. I think it could be any variety of factors, from stress, to the environment, to disinterest. *shrugs*
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Posted: Wed Jul 07, 2010 7:53 am
My guess is that it's a super weak orgasm. I have had orgasms that were very strong and awesome. Then I have had orgasms that I could barely feel at all and that were very disappointing. It doesn't seem to be mood, stress, or technique related for me, just one of those things.
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