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 Posted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 1:19 am
Yes. I hate to be put between two people who are my friends. Or whom I like generally speaking.
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Posted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 1:30 am
Honestly, it depends on what is happening. You should not get involved, other than to hint that the two should try and work it out themselves. Do not pick sides and stay out of it, if they try to draw you into their fued, do not let them. If they keep insisting that you get involved, I reccomend staying away from them for a while.
When friends fight it is a seriously complicated situation. But every situation is different, if you feel your support of one friend is neccessary ....like an intervention or something of the sort, do not be afraid to pick sides but this would be only for the physical or emotional benefit of an individual. And done in said individuals best interest. Am I clear or am I muddled?
If A and C are fighting, B good and stay out of it.
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Digital Malevolence Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 1:50 am
Yeah, I usually just stay out of it. Unless I feel very strongly against what one of the parties is arguing.
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Posted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 3:10 am
Yeah... that's what I was doing. Staying a good B out of the drama, still talking to both ends and supporting both sides (it wasn't a fight in the beginning - it turned to that at the end, actually).
Anyway, what I was trying to say is that I don't like to find me in these situations. Especially when eventually one of the sides accuses me of you knew they were lying all the time when I wasn't aware of 99% of what was happening.
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Posted: Fri Jul 02, 2010 9:24 am
Mmm, yeah, that sucks. Last time I got involved in a problem between friends I ended up not talking to one of them for like 6 months because I sided against him. Ugly business.
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