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 Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2006 6:44 pm
i want to run away to someplace where i am not judged. i have huge issues with my dad. i don't think i can live in my house anymore...what do i do? and btw, talking to my dad is not an option.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 12:45 pm
Hm, is there a friend you can stay with? Thats always an option. But first you should pray to God about it and see if he will take away your suffering.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 6:17 pm
the only reason i could see leaving is if you are being abuesed... it all depends on how you are judged because it is really up to you to not accept what is being said about you and the judgment really dosnt mean anything because the only judgment we have to face is our father in Heaven
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 3:19 pm
I've been there before Betty. I tried to run away once. Not too many people know about it. With me, it was a horrible mistake that hopefully my parents don't have to find out. If your situation is really that bad, you need to get some outside help. Teachers and the school 'phyco-ologist', as I like to call them, might be able to help. If it's really that serious, then you should go to the cops. I'll be praying for you.
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 5:55 pm
Well as others have said, prayer is of the highest importance in this situation. It will definitely help you out.
Also, as you probably know, Honor your father and your mother is one of the ten commandments. As difficult as this may seem in your situation, God calls us to be family orientated. Though this may be easier for some than for others, we're supposed to try our best in it. Do you and your father share and common interests? I know you said talking to him isn't an option, but from the sounds of it, it seems like he doesn't understand where you're coming from. Am I right? One thing I've found when there is drama in my family is that expressing feelings (other than anger/rage) helps.
Sorry if this advice is lame, but it's tough without knowing all the details of the situation. sweatdrop
Good luck to you!
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Posted: Fri Feb 17, 2006 10:01 pm
My advice is that you can either run away, or, if it is truely bad enough, try to make arrangements to stay with another family member or family friend. Running away is illegal and anyone who lets you stay at their house if you are a runaway can get aiding and abbetting (at least, they an in CA.).
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Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 12:53 am
People are saying you should run away?
No, that can't be an option. You'll just grow farther apart from him, and trust me, that only makes things worse.
If you can't even talk to him, then it is very clear that you need a family counselor.
Talk to your mom about that.
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Posted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 5:45 pm
You shall call me Betty i want to run away to someplace where i am not judged. i have huge issues with my dad. i don't think i can live in my house anymore...what do i do? and btw, talking to my dad is not an option. has it ever occured to you to pray? i mean really. my mother physically attacked me last year, not to mention the verbal crap, and my friend prayed for me, and things did get better. so, yeah. jeez...
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