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 Posted: Tue May 25, 2010 10:49 am
I am sorry in advance of this seems like just me getting stuff off of my chest, but I have been so out of it the past few days, that my dad has picked up on it, as oblivious as he often is and I am just so worried, and partially scared, as silly as it sounds.
What could possibly be so absurdly disgusting about me... people just seem to be pushed away family looks at me odd, Friends have completely dropped from being my friends in the past while, people in public even possible employers and of course anybody I have tried to be friends with as feeble as it may be, how can one person be so insanely off putting?
I am just myself, nothing more nothing less, yet I feel completely secluded, and avoided. It is just so frustrating and completely confusing. What could be so off putting to people?
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Posted: Tue May 25, 2010 11:53 am
As stupid as it sounds, the problem isn't with you, it's with everyone else. I have no idea why everyone else treats you like that, but there's nothing disgusting about you. heart
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Posted: Tue May 25, 2010 11:56 am
Out of it? Staring off into space basically? I do that a lot and it sounds to me everyone around you noticed your behavior has changed and they might just want to give you space? People who are usually quit and seems distant from others usually doesn't get much attention. What your describing vaguely I can relate to in some form.
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 5:57 am
Nikolita As stupid as it sounds, the problem isn't with you, it's with everyone else. I have no idea why everyone else treats you like that, but there's nothing disgusting about you. heart Thank you Nikolita. Valgex: what I mean by out of it is just, just hitting my peak of aggrivation, sorry about that.
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 6:44 am
Sauvie Nikolita As stupid as it sounds, the problem isn't with you, it's with everyone else. I have no idea why everyone else treats you like that, but there's nothing disgusting about you. heart Thank you Nikolita. Valgex: what I mean by out of it is just, just hitting my peak of aggrivation, sorry about that. I see.
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 10:10 pm
Have you noticed any major changes in your friends? have they started hanging out with different people?
And I have the same problem. People in my town just seem to hate me. I tend to be the outsider. This is partially due to my being cast as an outsider as early back as kindergarten. But people will look at you differently for a number of reasons only they know. This isn't the least bit your problem. In my case I was labeled and outsider because I was ahead of my class and younger than most of the students in it. They couldn't handle that fact and decided to outcast me. I never had a friend until 7th grade. When it comes to being socially outcast. The main problem is people Forget to see who you are and the good things about you. They will tend to look at you and only see what is wrong with them. This tends to be caused allot by jealousy and just pure human brutality.
Try Getting up the courage to go out and meet new people. People who share your beliefs and interests. If you do you never know when you will meet a new friend. as far as the family issues go i would need allot more in depth information to be able to start making any suggestions to what it might be. But try to find the silver lining in your life. You have other friends. Even though they might be online they still care about you and love you just like a hometown friend. And in some cases your even closer because you feel a stronger sense of trust. So my number one tip is to just stay who you are and make yourself know.
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