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 Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 10:25 am
Hi, I haven't posted in LSG for a long, long time, but I really want to get this off my mind and get some advice.
k, so, there's this guy in my art class and I know he likes me (one of my friends told me and I also suspected so). We went to prom together, just as friends, and, at first, I didn't like him as in more than a friend. But now, I suppose I do like him.
We don't really talk that much, tho. It's just the occasional brief conversation or comment. But sometimes during these brief exchanges of words, I feel as though I'm acting cold to him. You see, the thing about me is that, if I suspect someone likes me, I avoid them. If I like someone, I avoid them. If someone likes me and I like them back, I'm sometimes cold to whoever that is. I guess I'm just afraid of being in a relationship, since I've never been in one before. I dunno. I'm a retard.
I expected him to give up on liking me, since I act like this sometimes, but I guess he still does like me after all this time. Unfortunately, school's out and the only time I might see him is graduation practice or the graduation ceremony itself. But that's not guaranteed.
I'm wondering if it'd be worth it to ask him out to dinner or something. But, if we do go out, we won't be able to see one another once we go to college (except talking via webcam or something), since we're going to be, leik, 6 hours apart.
auydughshgjhgsk. Is it too late? Should I just give up? I need advice. ._.
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Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 12:15 pm
Do it! o:
And even if you only go out during the summer, it'll still be fun.
Also I feel like I know you from somewhere...
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Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 1:12 pm
Go for it.
You don't want to be regretting this later, constantly thinking "What if I...".
Even with the college situation, well it doesn't have to be long-term and it can just be a bit of fun. :B
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Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 6:08 pm
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Posted: Thu May 20, 2010 2:46 pm
Do it.
You'll see him on holidays if you both go back to town for them.
And there's summer, too!
:>
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Posted: Thu May 20, 2010 11:10 pm
if you have something there, go for it. :>
you have nothing to lose.
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Posted: Fri May 21, 2010 9:16 am
But now how do I go about asking him out? We don't hang out (well, I don't hang out with anyone, since I'm kind of a recluse) and I may not see him anymore, since school's out and the graduation ceremony'll be too hectic when everyone leaves and before the ceremony, he'll be around friends a such.
Is it okay to ask him out over chat? Or do guys hate that?
He might've even moved on already.
aksjhdjfhsdjkfhksg. I feel so hopeless. :c
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Posted: Sat May 22, 2010 12:18 am
Well, you talked to him in school, right? do you have his number? If not, you can use other means to contact him. Ask him to hang out! Just hang out a few times before you say anything. You could hang out once and bring it up if you like. Whichever you feel more comfortable with. :3
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