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 Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 7:48 pm
So, since I cut myself loose, I've had a bit of a "single ladies" attitude.
Of course, that would only be accurate if I actually managed to appeal to the opposite gender around here... and I don't. And that kind of puts a damper on Senior Prom since everyone else in my group from last year decided to pair up, leaving me all by my lonesome self.
At the moment, I'm considering asking someone out (but not to Ball, because he already went to prom and our Ball is really effing expensive), but I'm a little hesitant because I know for a fact that I can be, in a word, inconsistent - demanding one minute and completely laid-back the next. I guess...I'm not quite sure whether I want to formally ask someone to put up with me? I dunno.
And I don't want this to be a long-term relationship (I really don't want any long term relationships for a while), which is kind of helped by the whole going to college thing.
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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 8:29 pm
Just ******** around with people/hook up. That way no relationship bs plus sexual healing.
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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 8:36 pm
I don't know, man, being inconsistent seems pretty normal to me. Everyone is. You don't have to ask him to "formally put up with you" (that's a depressing prospect). No need to demean yourself. I'm sure you're a pleasant-enough lady!
And it doesn't have to be an expensive BFD if you don't want it to! Just suggest a casual date. Another one if it is fun for you two. And another maybe! I
f you don't want it to be long term, it doesn't have to be. If you guys get all datey, just make your intentions clear to each other. [:
And if it doesn't work out, soon you're gonna be in college with a ton of new people. And about half of those people will be dudes.
You have OPTIONS!
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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 9:04 pm
Neccasaurus Rex Just ******** around with people/hook up. That way no relationship bs plus sexual healing.
I guess I'm not really used to dating people who are within a 5 mile radius. My last relationship was long-distance, so I guess it's time to readjust, and with that, I've essentially set myself back 3 years. >:
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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 9:52 pm
You're not even out of highschool yet. RELAX. Don't go hooking up/sleeping around with people if you're not ready for it. Sometimes when you're single is the best time to better yourself. Work on those things that bother you. But for ******** sake don't sleep around if you're all self conscious and stuff. Sleeping around to make yourself feel attractive is going to make you depend on sex to feel attractive. I doubt you want that.
EDIT: I read it wrong. But even so, don't feel like you have to be in a relationship to be happy. Maybe some self reflection and improvement is a good idea right now.
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Posted: Mon May 10, 2010 9:55 pm
Neccasaurus Rex Just ******** around with people/hook up. That way no relationship bs plus sexual healing. Everytime you say something like this the image of you in my head changes. Stop being so confusing. ]: <
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 8:12 am
I say "******** long term" single is the way to go. Hahaha.
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 12:50 am
marzipancakes I say "******** long term" single is the way to go. Hahaha.
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Posted: Mon May 24, 2010 6:33 am
I would say ask him out for something casual in a group, but make it obvious that you're the one inviting him.
"Hey We're going to _____ but I'd really like it if you came. Would you like to come?"
So it leaves it open for friendship as well as maybe something casually romantic? Best i can come up with.
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 3:41 pm
So, I was literally minutes from asking him out.
...and then he mentioned his girlfriend of (at the time) three days.
emo
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