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Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 2:05 pm

well i wasn't really sure what subfourm to put this unbder this looked the most fitting.
k i know my mom loves me alot and i know that she would nebver do anything to hurt me...but....she never says i love you, and she always says how bad i'm doing or that i'm nothing or to put exactly..she said a few nights ago i asked do you love me? she said "was i givin a choice?" this hurts really bad.....i know that she loves me and has issues with herself....but i dunno... my dad is never around really....he comes over sometimes but it's like i don't even exist.

Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 2:36 pm

Maybe family counselling would be something to consider? It sounds like you and your mom have some issues.

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Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 2:56 pm

yes that we do.... crying

Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 4:45 pm

I agree with Nikolita with the family counsling, I also think that you should tell your mother how you feel about this.

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Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 4:45 pm

Nikolita

Maybe family counselling would be something to consider? It sounds like you and your mom have some issues.

I agree.

Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 6:05 pm

sounds like my grandma...... she was a virbal b***h.... said some nasty things about me and has hurt my family alot....

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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 12:33 pm

Sit down and talk with your mom. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you need to hear the words.

Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 9:03 pm

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well i wasn't really sure what subfourm to put this unbder this looked the most fitting.
k i know my mom loves me alot and i know that she would nebver do anything to hurt me...but....she never says i love you, and she always says how bad i'm doing or that i'm nothing or to put exactly..she said a few nights ago i asked do you love me? she said "was i givin a choice?" this hurts really bad.....i know that she loves me and has issues with herself....but i dunno... my dad is never around really....he comes over sometimes but it's like i don't even exist.

That's awful. My mom tells me she loves me every day, pretty much. I have a hard time saying it back. Well, not "I love you", but more like, "I think you're wonderful because..."

Sometimes it's just really hard.

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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 2:41 pm

I have almost the same problem with my dad, he says he loves me and all and i know he does. but sometimes he gets so mean crying he calls me rude things and tells me i'm a lier. I finally got so hurt that i'm staying at my moms.... I hope that you guys work it out smile

Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 2:09 pm

My mum and I used to be really close until she got remarried. Then along came my step sister and brother. My mum thought things would be better between us all if we went to family couselling and really....my mum doesn't even know which friends i have, what their names are, even if I introduce them face to face. When i talked about school, she didn't pay attention. She was too busy working. My mum used to take time from her work to spend time with us.

So in my opinion family counselling doesn't really work, but give ti a try anyway. It miight work out for you.

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