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 Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 5:34 pm
basiclly this friend, if u could call her that, i friend-ed because nobody likes her and i felt sorry for her (did i mention shes mentally disabled), and shes always getting her self into trouble with the bullies. so she kept coming to me when i was still in her class for help. then in the next semester, when my schduel changed, i didn't have her for class anymore and stopped talking to her, thats when she stated getting.... well stalkerish. i started ignoring her and she stated annoying me, i was going home with my bff (vampirequeen12angel) and my twin sis(kennys1fan) when she saw me, and stated pulling on my backpack,choking me exclaim , saying ,"why are you ignoring me? why are you ignoring me?" (in my mind i kept saying, "because you annoy me like you're doing now exclaim ") and i don't wanna be mean but i don't want to be her friend anymore when she doesn't have any friends and no one wants to be her friend, What should i do question  
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 6:50 pm
Don't completely ignore her, then she might get sad.
Just talk to her if she talks to you.
Maybe that might be easier? I don't know if I'm any help. D:
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Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 6:06 pm
Well, I know this might come out as harsh, but - and correct me if I'm wrong, here- you did only befriend her out of pity, right? Those types of relationships never turn out well. It's happened to me, too, so don't think I'm judging. I know what it's like. And I can totally relate. sweatdrop
Be frank with her. If she really wants to be your friend, tell her she's bugging you, and that you aren't always going to be around. You have other friends, too, and you are not hers alone. Make sure you're firm, but not mean. If she is metally disabled, be sure you go easy on her.
If she keeps bugging you, or something else happens, tell a teacher or your princepal or someone you trust. Tell them the story, and ask them to help you explain to her that she can't be so (to quote you) 'stalkerish'. She should get the idea soon enough, but be patient.
Hope this helps! -Reku1495
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Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 6:15 pm
think of it this way;would you like someone to be friends with you because they feel sorry for you.be friends with her because you want to not because you feel sorry for her.
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Posted: Tue May 18, 2010 6:27 pm
Reku1495 Well, I know this might come out as harsh, but - and correct me if I'm wrong, here- you did only befriend her out of pity, right? Those types of relationships never turn out well. It's happened to me, too, so don't think I'm judging. I know what it's like. And I can totally relate. sweatdrop Be frank with her. If she really wants to be your friend, tell her she's bugging you, and that you aren't always going to be around. You have other friends, too, and you are not hers alone. Make sure you're firm, but not mean. If she is metally disabled, be sure you go easy on her. If she keeps bugging you, or something else happens, tell a teacher or your princepal or someone you trust. Tell them the story, and ask them to help you explain to her that she can't be so (to quote you) 'stalkerish'. She should get the idea soon enough, but be patient. Hope this helps! -Reku1495
wow, that actually makes ALOT of sense
thnx, i'll do that next time i see her  
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Posted: Wed May 19, 2010 4:43 am
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 10:08 am
eeek this is hard.
well my best friend used to stalk me, before we were best friends i thought she was the most annyonig person in the world and weird. i always ran from her until i finally decided to give up and just talk to her, then i realized that she not the type of person i thought. ands we became best friends were so close it's like we can read each others minds O.o
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Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:27 pm
She's getting a bit stalkerish..and she's pulling on your backpack which is choking you..
That would be assault. You should tell an adult or somebody about what's been happening to you. I'm not lying. You should really tell someone before this gets out of control. And remember, if one adult isn't doing anything, keep telling another adult till they do something about it. [I would suggest telling the principle, or one of your teachers, or maybe your parents to start off with.]
If you really do not want to be around her..nobody's stopping you. It's your life. But i think you shouldn't completely ignore her. At least talk to her sometimes but not all the time. So she doesn't feel very sad.
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Posted: Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:14 am
 ⓚⓐⓖⓤⓨⓐⓗⓘⓜⓔ Even if it's painful? Even if your heart aches? ♥♥♥ ╔═════════════════╗ At the end of the day, this is a girl who thought she had friends who've then suddenly just cut off all contact with her.
How is she supposed to react to that? She's going to be confused and hurt.
I'm not trying to be mean but just stating the facts. You have to talk to her and tell her that this kind of 'stalkerish' behaviour is not on.
However, if she smiles or waves at you in the street/corridor would it really be such a b*****d to smile back? ╚═════════════════╝ ♥♥♥ Even if my heart aches; I want to be with him.
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