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Kamerreon

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Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 5:26 pm

I just started a new job, which I like very much, and the people in my training class are all pretty cool. Except for this one guy that I got along with really well the last couple of weeks. We just talked alot and had lunch with a bunch of people together a few times. Then last week he walked by and grabbed my a**, later in training he asked me to have his babies. This is even more uncomfortable to me because he is a bi-sexual and he is dating a guy that works there. I keep waiting for his bf to say, "OMG what are you doing?" I want it to stop but he won't! I even told a supervisor and she did was slap his hand. He creeps me out and I really don't know what to do. Every time I see him I feel like I am going to throw up or die or something... please help me!!!

Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 10:54 pm

Talk to your supervisor's supervisor about it. Or at least tell your supervisor that her attempts have not stopped the behavior and you need her to be more strict. If that doesn't work then there is probably a government controlled board that addresses these kinds of issues. Ask your parents or check the phone book and you can get them involved. You DON'T have to put up with being sexual harassed. If the board won't take action then go to the police.

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Posted: Fri Dec 30, 2005 7:51 am

Chalda

Talk to your supervisor's supervisor about it. Or at least tell your supervisor that her attempts have not stopped the behavior and you need her to be more strict. If that doesn't work then there is probably a government controlled board that addresses these kinds of issues. Ask your parents or check the phone book and you can get them involved. You DON'T have to put up with being sexual harassed. If the board won't take action then go to the police.

I agree. Tell your supervisor's boss, or someone above you with a lot of power. If they refuse to listen and/or take action, go to the police. You don't have to take it.
You could also mention it to this co-worker's boyfriend, and let him know that his partner is doing & saying these things to you. Maybe he could step in and get this co-worker to stop what he's doing.
If worse comes to worse, you could quit, but that would be a last resort.

Posted: Fri Dec 30, 2005 10:57 am

I believe you can sue the company if they continue to not stop him from doing these things can't you? I'm not certain but I think you can atleast, only do it if they do not do anything about him doing these things.

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Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 1:37 pm

ok the thing with this is....if you don't do something about it or it continues it will get worse. so you must do something about it now while you can....have you ever seen the movie Noth Counrty? that is a true story about the extream case of sexual abuse in the workplace and i'm not saying it will get that bad...but it may get gradually worse. so do something now and if your superviser is not doing anything but slapping him on the wrist..then you need to tell thier supervisor about it and if they don't do anything take it to there boss then if that does nothing you take it to court.

Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 5:57 pm

Thank you guys, this is all very good advice!

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Posted: Sun Jan 01, 2006 11:35 pm

I can't say much that the others haven't already -

Just don't forget that you have the power to turn around and tell him to buzz off, too. Maybe I'm too blunt of a person, but unless I fear the man could do me physical harm and is doing more than acting like a total dumbass/goofball, I just as soon tell him to go to hell.
If your supervisor has a supervisor, climb the ladder.

Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 8:25 pm

I suggest you too tell someone like your boss about it. if this keeps up either call the police or tell him to stop or else. thats what I would've done.

Or also you should tell what happen to the guy hes dating, he might be able to be some assistance.

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Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 2:09 pm

well you could always try a sexual harrassment suit on him

Posted: Sat Mar 18, 2006 9:34 pm

get some guy friends to kick his a** XD

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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:34 pm

Kamerreon

I just started a new job, which I like very much, and the people in my training class are all pretty cool. Except for this one guy that I got along with really well the last couple of weeks. We just talked alot and had lunch with a bunch of people together a few times. Then last week he walked by and grabbed my a**, later in training he asked me to have his babies. This is even more uncomfortable to me because he is a bi-sexual and he is dating a guy that works there. I keep waiting for his bf to say, "OMG what are you doing?" I want it to stop but he won't! I even told a supervisor and she did was slap his hand. He creeps me out and I really don't know what to do. Every time I see him I feel like I am going to throw up or die or something... please help me!!!

I have a few tips for you to help you out the next time he tries something write it down in a notebook so that you will have some evidence against him so he cant deny it or you can use a tape recorder so that you can record what he says too. I know how you feel because I was sexually harrased at my old job but it was a customer who wouldnt leave me alone he would say thing to me that I didnt like at all. Like the time he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said yes so I could get back to work and he said do you sleep in the same bed together. Another time he asked me to come spend the night at his house and the only thing I could come up with I have to ask my mom for permission. The last thing he ever said to me was do you have any kids and I said no then he said what are you on the pill. good luck I hope everything gets better.

Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 2:25 am

I see that it's been a long time since you posted this, so I'm wondering what has been done? Has it been taken care of? are you still needing advice?

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