the_forgotten_thought
my gf keeps getting in trouble because of me and i know i'm a bad gf as it is, so i'm thinking maybe i should break up. at the same time, i know she'll take the break up horribly wrong and prolly won't believe me when i honestly tell her that she deserves much more than me. but god, i'm so confused and i really just wanna make her happy and i think ending it would do the trick...
i need advice!!!
Well, seeing as that you describe yourself as a bad gf and want to make her happy by ending it, if you think that it is the right decision, then break up.
Make it clear with your body language, spoken and shown, that you simply think that your influence on her is a bad thing and that you would rather see her with someone else with a good influence. Tell her why she deserves better and how breaking up can help her find someone better.
I hope this helps.
Love,
Stephanie