you need to find friends who are willing to listen to you and cry with you about the past then help you build up the courage to do those things you have been afraid of doing the only way to show up the person who raped you is to show them u survived and are a stronger and better person then they had ever been or ever will become =^,...,^= if u want to talk just message me i am 18 yrs old have a beautiful feonce she was raped 3 times and our lives are moving slow but we are happy to take our time the number one thing people if you are dating some one who has been raped there is 1 word you always need to follow that is the word "NO!!" take my words to heart and u may just be like me and my feonce just keep your self safe people i type 2 much but i will be your best friend if u need some unprofesional phy help i may not be licensed but if u let me i can try to help u =^,...,^=