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just broke up with his girlfriend, whom he's been going out with for about like 9-10 months suddenly came back to talking to us.

Well, i never had a problem with him, but he seemed to have a problem with my other friends whom are the girls.

He basically told them during the summer that he doesn't want anything to do with them i.e. talk to them, hang with them, see them.

They took that pretty hard and a couple months ago, raged at him for trying to talk to them, which ended up with crying and whatever.

Now he's back and trying to be friends with them, he said that his gf told him to not be friends w/ them, deleted them off myspace/msn/etc. he started crying, they cried etc. blablablah. right now, it's kinda like sure whatever, he's hanging with us a bit but not like before where we were cool with him and stuff. He's just..hanging around with not much interaction.

I don't like to bother getting into this because i hate drama and i have no beef with him anyways, i usually just no sell everything. xp

I still feel a bit uncomfortable welcoming him back in. I mean, we did fine w/o him in our group and now him just coming back doesn't feel right. I mean i know i don't have anything against him but i just feel like i don't know, just saying i wanna be friends with you guys again after you broke it off with your girlfriend ain't going to cut it at all. neutral

Discuss: If a good friend of yours tells you that they don't want to be friends with you anymore suddenly changes heart and says they'd like to be friends again, how would you react?

Yeah, he basically hung out with his gf and her friends all the time. literally.

then he comes back all sad w/ his sob story and tries to get the girls with sympathy which i'm not sure really won them over.

They seem ok with him hanging out with us, a bit. I can still tell they're really uneasy about him.

Like i guarantee they're really using their sarcasm faces like when someone you don't necessarily know or like suddenly talks to you.

Yeah, a ton of time. I can admit i'm not cool with this right now.

@J0E: I still no sell his presence. He usually does this, comes to where we hang, stands around a bit, then leaves, and repeat.

@Korri: Don't be his friend. crying