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Kimi The Queen

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 08, 2010 7:34 am


well i like this person but he likes someone else i dont know what to do crying xp heart heart heart heart wahmbulance wahmbulance wahmbulance
PostPosted: Mon Mar 08, 2010 11:34 pm


It happens... And it's not a fun situation... However, you can't make someone like you.

If they like someone else, you will have to deal with it.

Not much I can tell you.

Perhaps someone else will have better advice.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 10:28 pm


I don't really have advice but more so a question that could open a door to advice.

Does the guy know you like him?
If he's not dating this girl then I'm sure he's open to other options so maybe you could be that other option.
PostPosted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 2:01 am


a few more details would help but i assume it's a classic i like him he likes her not me triangle, trust me i know the situation.

basically, waiting it out is all you can do at first, while what bloody said about not being able to force someone to like you is true, it's also true you can show them how much you care for them and with a small chance it may sway them to you.

the unfortunate side is while trying to sway them, one wrong move and they'll blast back to their previous mindset.

Also, if you really like them, then you'll be willing to not just do, but openly admit(to him or public) you're happy if he is happy, whatever requirements that employs

but really without more details, this is merely the best i can conjure

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