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 Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2005 7:04 pm
It's always the same boy, too.
Only this time, I don't love him back.
In October, Mike(Kage No Oni) decided that he wanted to give me another shot.
What am I, a pinball game?
I know since then, he's made at least three threads in life issues about this mystery girl, how his car gets stolen the day after he talks about coming to visit her, how she's a gaia user, how he's ******** things up in the past with her.
I feel safe to assume he means me. I fall into all three of those categories.
I thought I could love him again.
No.
I cant.
I can love him platonically, but I dont see myself spending the rest of my life with him.
On top of that, I'm eighteen years old. He's a month away from being nineteen.
He asked me if I would marry him. I told him I couldn't answer that. He asked if I'd think about it.
He acts serious about it with me, and tells everyone else he's not ready for commitment, he wants a "companion", not a girlfriend.
He wants our ******** relationship back, is what he wants.
And I've heard recently from one of Mikes closest friends himself, that Mike was trying to get with a girl at his house. The day after my birthday, which he forgot. (And he repeatedly asked me what day it was on. Otherwise I wouldn't be so fussed.)
And now, everytime I call him and try to tell him that I can't do it, that I'd prefer we stay friends, that I want to be with Rigo, he either
doesn't pick up
he lets his friends answer the phone, and when I ask for him, they tell me he's taking a bong hit or something like that
or he does answer, but tells me he's at work.
I don't want to do this over a god damned voicemail or text message.
What the hell do I have to do to get ahold of him?
Should I call his father or his mother? (He'd LOVE that. xd )
Voicemail?
I'm never going to get through to him.
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Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2005 8:29 pm
Voicemail.
If he won't pick up the damn phone it's his damn fault.
He knows what's coming. Don't like him waste another ******** second of your time. Get rid of him. gonk
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Posted: Sun Dec 25, 2005 12:26 pm
I'd say your best bet is to get rid of him. It seems he doesn't want anything to do with you until he needs something. Or tell him to read your post here.
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Posted: Sun Dec 25, 2005 2:31 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 12:35 am
Either voicemail it or leave a message saying you need him to call you back urgently within two days. If he doesn't then definitely voicemail it. *hugs* It's the best thing for ya hun. Even if he wants a commitment, I don't think he's ready for it.
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 9:40 am
xLaurelX Voicemail.
If he won't pick up the damn phone it's his damn fault.
He knows what's coming. Don't like him waste another ******** second of your time. Get rid of him. gonk Agreed, just get him out of your life. If he's ignoring you, do voicemail, although telling his parents would be kind of a nice revenge as well. You don't deserve some lowlife like that. heart
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 5:50 pm
Hahaha. I don't think it's appropriate to joke around in this thread. Sets a bad example.
But it is Katie. xd
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 5:56 pm
You want an honest opinion? Cut-off contact with him completely, at least for now. If you don't like him to that degree and he will not get it through his head that you refuse to give him what he wants then you will have to do it sooner or later. I don't blame you either. I wouldn't expect an individual to accept being used by someone who refuses to stick with one girl alone yet claims that they actually want a solid relationship.
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 6:06 pm
xLaurelX Hahaha. I don't think it's appropriate to joke around in this thread. Sets a bad example.
But it is Katie. xd
Well, what I've come to notice and I'll even do this myself is that when men really don't want to talk to you they'll make up excuses not to talk to you. It's not really that you're a bad person or you're not worth it or anything it's just that they really don't want to talk at the time or they don't want to talk to that specific person. However, as you probably know better than me, most men will sometimes live with it in order to get a certain pleasure fulfilled.
If that's not what you want then leave it at that. If you really don't like him then don't even worry about it. If he doesn't want to talk to you then don't talk to him. Let him come to you. If he really wanted to talk to you he wouldn't be so avoidant. Trust me on that one lol.
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Posted: Mon Dec 26, 2005 8:19 pm
I'm kinda confused by your post, so sorry if this doesn't help.
Just tell him over voise mail. If he doesn't want to talk to you on the phone then he leaves you no other choise. Though, I guess there is e-mail or instant messanger or something like that. You should talk to him about it, and do so the best way you can.
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Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 12:21 am
So I called him, and he was ******** off with his friends. Bad time to tell him, but ******** it. Gotta do it, you know?
So I start questioning him about these girls I keep hearing about, all that crap. I cant get a word in because he's talking to his friend over me.
Nice.
So I tell him that I'm going to let him go then, he's obviously busy, but first--
And then he says "K, bye" and hangs up.
..no. No.
I call him back and tell him I wasn't finished talking to him yet, and told him that it wasn't important, I'm not important, am I?
Then I hung up.
Let him suck on that for a few days.
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