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what do you think causes people to rape somone?

but if that had happend to them then wouldnt you think that they wouldnt want it to happen to anyone else because that probably ruined their who life and probably made them depressed and felt like their whole life had no more meaning and woouldnt wwant anyone else to ever feel like that

they have cemical imbalance in their brains and they were
either raped themselves when they were younger causing them to think what they are doing is not wrong and they picture the victim as the one who abused them rapists themselves are a twisted and sad people who lash out their childhood pain on others i am totally against rape because i was raped myself three times the first time it happend was when i was 5 years old i was
kidknapped ,beaten and was forced to do things i didnt want to do i felt like i had no choice i was looking at either a bullet to the head or a slashed throat and it was two teenaged girls that did that horribale act to me then the second time was by a substitute teacher i was 8 years old at that time this lady had started touching me inappropreately in her car so i jumped out the car and ran all the way home and whent to my room and cried myslef to sleep then the next day i reported the substitute teacher to the guidence counselor and that piece of s**t substitute teacher was fired and the last time was when i was 16 years old i was pay some rent to stay at this drug addicts house because i was homeless at the time then i had some soda that i was drinking i didnt know that she had drugged it then i just fainted for no reason and when icame to i was naked with no clothes on in a bed i couldnt move or speak because of the shock of finding myself in a strange place not knowing what happend then it all hit me like a brick so i grabbed the stuff i had jumped out the living room window and ran over to a family friends house this lady known me since i was a baby and when i told her that i was raped she belived me i tried to have the woman who raped me shot cause i was angry,hurt,embarassed,and ashamed it hurt me deeply inside i just caved in on myself i wouldnt talk wouldnt eat and i wouldnt even drink because my trust was violated and my boundries compremised i started to get back into martial arts so this wont happen again to me or any one else

alot of them have been molested and if your 5 with all the innocence in the world but you got molested it makes you loose your innocense and its hard really difficult for them but yeah i know what you mean but thats mostly with only the boys

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but if that had happend to them then wouldnt you think that they wouldnt want it to happen to anyone else because that probably ruined their who life and probably made them depressed and felt like their whole life had no more meaning and woouldnt wwant anyone else to ever feel like that

I think its that they want somebody else to feel the pain they felt. They were alone and nobody was there for them, to know what the pain felt like, to comfort them. So they want somebody else to know, to feel what they felt, the pain they went through.