Eight words the Wiccan Rede fufill,Our subconscious is there to keep us aware. Basically what is happening to him, is since this has happened to him before, his mind is reminding him so as not to get crushed as much if it is true. Which in your case could be a bad thing cause you arent cheating on him, but his mind is always going to think that, until something happens to make his subconscious comfortable and trusting again. Our dreams are like the little angel and devil you always see in the cartoons where the angel would be telling him, trust and believe her. While the devil is probably saying, it has happened before what makes her any different. That is why he is saying that he isnt worried about, but in the back of his head he is always worried. He is afraid, and with that fear he will never be able to get completely close to you. Fear is a good thing to have, but you should never let it control you. His subconscious is basically reminding him about it, until he finally comes out and says it. It is hard to stop your mind from thinking things you feel. Like for example when my son was born, I would always have dreams of someone trying to steal my son. Though I always made myself not worry about it, my mind would always remind me of the possibility. Until I came to the realization that it is possible, it didnt stop the dreams. In your mans case, you would have to truly make him feel comfortable that he is safe, and has nothing to worry about. You need to show him you are truly loyal to just him and no one else. I am not saying to let him walk all over you and control you, but dont do anything that would make him even think it. As long as he truly knows you are only for him then his dreams of worry should stop. Try by getting him to talk about it. Tell him how you feel, be truthful with him. Lies can cause deception. The path to a successful relationship is a good communication, trust, loyalty, time together, as well as time apart. So as long as you display that to him, and he does it back you both should be just fine. Arguments happen but as long as you both work through it together you should succeed. Reationship are like a team one slacks they both fall. You have to work together. Become one. Blessed be and hope it helps. If he wants his dream interpreted let me know.
Luna Raven
An' Ye Harm none, Do what ye will!
