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Don't you just hate it when things between your friends go wrong?
  Sure do.
  Things don't go wrong with my friends.
  Nah, I don't pay attention.
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Sperm Fairy

PostPosted: Sun Dec 18, 2005 11:15 am


I'm changing the names just for privacy.
There used to be 6 of us. Me, Cassy, June, Jill, Gina and Denny. We became a little group of friends in 2nd year of highschool, when we were 12/13. I got on well with everybody, but there has always been conflict between certain people. Jill and Gina came from the same primary school and were best friends from there, but in 1st year a large arguement came up and they never got on so much afterwards. June always held a grudge against me for being best friends with Cassy, as she wanted to be best friends with her. Denny never liked Jill because she ignored her alot. So we were never the perfect click, but we got on most of the time as there was always somebody in the group they liked.
The first problem sprouted with Jill. She made friends with a girl we'll call Mandy, who was the friend of a boy named Rick. Rick bullied us like hell, but barred Jill and Cassy out of this for some reason. I think he fancied them or something. So I wasn't happy about this, neither was Gina but she would take any oppertunity(sp?) to be mad at Jill. We were still friends with her, but we didn't like her as much anymore.
Next problem was Cassys mum went and got herself a boyfriend. Like any other single parent, did she go for somebody in the same town? No. Did she go for somebody in the same city? No. Did she go for somebody in the same country? No. She goes for some bloke from Ireland. Fair enough, he was a nice guy. Problem was, after about 4 months of being together, Cassys mum decided to move to Ireland, taking Cassy with her. We're all gutted. Cassy moves away, leaving 5 of us behind. At first we all get letters, but I only ever got one, everybody else got 2. Then it seemed to be narrowed down to June getting letters. I was the only one who ever got her phone number though, but that's not the point. This caused alot of arguements too.
Next problem. Jill ditches us. She goes off with Mandy, and acts like she has done nothing wrong. She still has June tagging after her sometimes, but blanks the rest of us. She seems to hate me with a passion now, which is not very strange seeing as Rick is friends with Mandy.
Next problem, some girl who is 2 years older than us, and a total goon in my opinion decides to befriend June, and join our little group. She has no other friends, but I do not like her. I'm fine with her tagging after June, but she twists her way into doing everything with us. I was invited to her house, without my knowing! She arranged it with June and her mother that I was to go to her house after school. I never knew anything about this until it was time to go home, and she said ''Right, off to my house.''. Ugh, I really can't stand her. She whacked me square in the face once, and laughed. Honeslty, I really don't want her around. I feel sorry for her though, so we can't exactly tell her to go away as she has no other friends. I spoke to a boy in 5th year, (her year) and asked if he knew her. He said ''Unfortunatly yes'' so that just shows how popular she is. She freaks me out too, you can't understand what she is talking about alot of the time, as she has her own little world and such. I really wish she'd go away, but I don't want to hurt her feelings.
Last problem, a b***h in my school who we shall call Jess. She decided that she hates me, because I b***h about her, but I don't, I've never said anything bad about her. She is turning my own friends against me, and I can't get her to leave me alone. I've asked her several times to stop it, but she just blanks me, or goes off and laughs about me. She's made Denny cry on several occasions as she's fallen out with her. Problem is, June is friends with her, and won't see things clearly about her. I don't know what to do about this girl.
So that's it. I'm sorry if it's so long, but I really need advice on each problem. Thanks x


When I cannot sing my heart, I can only speak my mind. - John Lennon
PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 8:17 am


I see nobody wants to give me any advice..

When I cannot sing my heart, I can only speak my mind. - John Lennon

Sperm Fairy


Black-Eyed-Peas PuNk

PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 9:00 am


I cn't read it too small sorry mae a little bigger
PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 11:22 am


Starrkey
I see nobody wants to give me any advice..

When I cannot sing my heart, I can only speak my mind. - John Lennon
This is a slow moving forum. You have to wait.


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xLaurelX
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xLaurelX
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 11:26 am


You can't save the world.

You need to stop worrying about everyone else's problems. Your friends, I understand that you care about them, but you need to let them solve it.

I'd try and talk to the people that are mad at you or that you're mad at. And if you don't think that will work, then move on. People do grow apart
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