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 Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 4:07 pm
So , I really like this guyy. We talk a lot in texts, but not much in person. Whenever I see him, for an example, like when I walk up to him in the morning, I ignore him and get really nervous/shy. Like, he asks me why im so shy and stuff around him , and that I shouldn't be. What could I do to not be like this?
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Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 4:23 pm
You could try talking to him a little more each day. Once you get used to talking to him, you'll probably find that it isn't as scary!
Until then, relax, take deep breaths, and remember that he's only human too!
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Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 4:58 pm
LorienLlewellyn You could try talking to him a little more each day. Once you get used to talking to him, you'll probably find that it isn't as scary! Until then, relax, take deep breaths, and remember that he's only human too! Thankyou, LorienLlewellyn!!
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Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:10 pm
Omg. This sounds exactly like my girlfriend and I when we first started dating. She would not talk to me at all in person but would txt me all the time, and when we she would come to me in person, she would almost say nothing except Hi, hello, whats up, or See ya!
It was almost frustrating, but as time went on, she learned that I don't care what or how she acts. Or if she gets words mixed up, or tongue tied. And she's very open and free around me now.
So all I can say is, TIME. :]
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Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 6:25 pm
I was very shy before dating my boyfriend....I was so nervous, I'd always make sure someone else was there with us when we would hang out (out of fear we'd have nothing to talk about and I would bore him) or I'd do the very mean thing and make up excuses to not see him. sweatdrop
But anyway, you should spend time with him...I know you're shy but do it! Then you may ask, what would we talk about? Play this game my boyfriend would play with me so we could get to know each other (I was still very, very painfully shy and quiet when we first started dating). Its the 20 questions game, ask him a question. He will answer, then you answer the same question. Then he will do the same. :] you keep going, doesn't have to be 20 questions.
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