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Posted: Sat Dec 17, 2005 8:10 am
I went to hang out on with a guy friend of mine. Though I was wondering if there was something wrong with me, heres the story we went to hang out then my friend asked me if I wanted to have sex with him I looked at him and said yes but when we were trying to get ' it ' to work well basically I couldn't get his manhood to go into my v****a. We tried so many positions and then just gave up. I'm no longer a virgin and I was well lubricated so I just don't see how it wouldn't work. * sigh *
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Posted: Sat Dec 17, 2005 10:54 am
Wait, so a random friend just asked if you wanted to have sex out of the blue and you said yes? Yeah. I'd say there's something wrong there.
Oh, and as for the main problem, it's probably your hymn.
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Posted: Sat Dec 17, 2005 7:12 pm
There could have been a number of reasons. -You were nervous and tensed up your muscles (even if you didn't mean to your body may have reacted this way) -Your hymen is quiet closed and so must be ripped which is painful -You weren't pushing in the right spot -He wasn't hard enough to penetrate you -Even if you were horny their may not have been enough lubricant
Next time plan it out so you can have a relaxing romantic place and get some condoms and lubricant so that you are protected. Before then try to finger yourself to stretch yourself out and prepare.
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2005 12:19 am
Chalda There could have been a number of reasons. -You were nervous and tensed up your muscles (even if you didn't mean to your body may have reacted this way) -Your hymen is quiet closed and so must be ripped which is painful -You weren't pushing in the right spot -He wasn't hard enough to penetrate you -Even if you were horny their may not have been enough lubricant
Next time plan it out so you can have a relaxing romantic place and get some condoms and lubricant so that you are protected. Before then try to finger yourself to stretch yourself out and prepare. Agreed. Do your research and take the proper steps BEFORE having sex, so you don't end up infected with something, or pregnant, or both. If you're responsible and mature enough to be having sex, or trying to have sex even, then you and your partner are ensuring you're mature and responsible enought to deal with the consequences. Go on proper birth control, and use a condom every time. Although that's still not a guarantee you won't get pregnant, it's better than unprotected sex.
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Posted: Sun Dec 18, 2005 10:45 am
Lifeissuesmule21 Wait, so a random friend just asked if you wanted to have sex out of the blue and you said yes? Yeah. I'd say there's something wrong there. Yeah, I agree with that too. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 11:14 am
Lifeissuesmule21 Wait, so a random friend just asked if you wanted to have sex out of the blue and you said yes? Yeah. I'd say there's something wrong there. Oh, and as for the main problem, it's probably your hymn. I never said he was random damnit and I was sexually attracted to him, so I don't see it as wrong.
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Posted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 11:18 am
Nikolita Chalda There could have been a number of reasons. -You were nervous and tensed up your muscles (even if you didn't mean to your body may have reacted this way) -Your hymen is quiet closed and so must be ripped which is painful -You weren't pushing in the right spot -He wasn't hard enough to penetrate you -Even if you were horny their may not have been enough lubricant
Next time plan it out so you can have a relaxing romantic place and get some condoms and lubricant so that you are protected. Before then try to finger yourself to stretch yourself out and prepare. Agreed. Do your research and take the proper steps BEFORE having sex, so you don't end up infected with something, or pregnant, or both. If you're responsible and mature enough to be having sex, or trying to have sex even, then you and your partner are ensuring you're mature and responsible enought to deal with the consequences. Go on proper birth control, and use a condom every time. Although that's still not a guarantee you won't get pregnant, it's better than unprotected sex. I have done reserch I've been doing that for about four years now hell I waiting till I was 18 to finally have sex and I do admit my first time was very painful. I am very mature though anyone can make mistakes I usually do that when I'm not fully thinking. I get paranoid about stds I'm very careful about who I have sex with and yes I am mature enough to deal with the consequences.
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Posted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 11:24 am
mikomihino_25 Lifeissuesmule21 Wait, so a random friend just asked if you wanted to have sex out of the blue and you said yes? Yeah. I'd say there's something wrong there. Oh, and as for the main problem, it's probably your hymn. I never said he was random damnit and I was sexually attracted to him, so I don't see it as wrong.Well next time maybe try to give a little more background on the situation?
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