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 Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:59 am
That 2 of my friends have completely forgotten about me?
We know eachother in RL, And we used to be very good friends. Then suddenly one started to photograph models, and the other got busy with her study and her boyfriend. I never forget to send them birthday cards and christmascards, and I don't even get one back. Beside that ugly virtual image thing, that said "Happy holidays".
I always have been there for them, when they need me. When they needed advice, or just someone to talk to. I always kept my mouth shut when they only talked about their own s**t, not even bothering to ask me how I am feeling.
The contact is completely gone, and they obviously don't even bother to talk to me on msn, or text message me, or anything.
I have tried to keep contact, but it seems like I am not important enough.
Should I let them go, or just keep trying?
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Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 5:42 pm
If you tried to keep in contact and they don't even acknoweldge it just let them go.
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Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 6:25 pm
Have you tried contacting them?
Because the way you wrote it sounded like you were waiting for them to contact you.
If you have, I would just lose them and get better friends.
People change fast, don't take it so personally. c:
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Posted: Mon Jan 11, 2010 9:53 pm
Actually talk to them face to face.
maybe set like a day where you guys can hang out with each other.
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Posted: Tue Jan 12, 2010 1:05 am
Huggertaker Actually talk to them face to face.
maybe set like a day where you guys can hang out with each other. Thing is, they are busy, and we have to travle 1 till 2 hours to see eachother. And they don't really want that. @ Ashelina; I textmessage them, so now and then, asking how they are doing, and they answer me back like.. a week later, or not. But on the other side, I've tried to contact them, they didn't contact me. Friendship isn't a one-way-street.
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Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 8:05 am
I'm going through the same thing.
Friend C, who has kept in contact with me is moving to another state. crying
My other "friends", A and B, hang out with each other. They're only friends because I'm the one who brought them together in the first place.
Friend A only wants me when it benefits her. Or when she has no one else to hang out with. She doesn't tell me anything, I have to learn everything about her from Friend B. And she basically tells me how much she is better than me because she's going to a four year college and that I'm going to a two year college. I'm suppose to go see a musical with Friend A tomorrow, her mom bought me tickets, but I really don't want to go.
Friend B only hangs out with me when Friend C is there. Or when she gets free stuff out of it. She always throws a big pity party. She is a big debbie downer. She will act friendly in front of your face but backstabs you all the time when you're not around.
One time I went to the college town that they live in, to hang out and stuff. Well they made a big deal about how I've never drank alcohol in my life. So they took me to a party and told me, "Here's your real college experience." I got really sick from all of the smoke, I'm have really asthma. So some totally random stranger girl went outside with me and talked with me. They didn't even notice that I was gone.
I do the same things: Birthday cards, holiday cards, even Christmas gifts sometimes. But A and B suck. I have come to realize that though and as days pass I see that they're the kind of people I don't want to hang out with. They sit around smoke pot, drink their asses off, and have sex 24/7. I have things in life I want to do and places I want to see.
All I can say is meet new people. Ever since I "let go" of them, I've met so many amazing people. It's hard, I understand, but it's life and it happens. I hope everything goes well.
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Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 10:55 am
Well, I did meet some amazing people from my class. They live closer than the others.
But i'm afraid they'll just end up like "those girls from school".
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 6:29 pm
That's how I claim some people.
So I went to that play with her and she didn't even talk to me. Whore. Then texted me today and asked if I wanted to see a movie with her. PUH! I have better things to do.
Dianda I would send you things back! And hang out with you! And party! lol
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