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 Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 5:48 pm
I'm 21 and a devouted and loyal Boyfriend to quite literaly the perfect girl for me, (she's 22)
Our relationship is super strong and sound, as is our devoution to our religion.
but we live in two separate towns which are 45 minutes from each town's city limits and only see each other once a week, at church.
the problem arises when we're not near each other, i begin to ache all over, and whats adds to it is i cant quit thinking about her, and the more i think of her, the more the aches annoy me, it usually gets so much i physcially reach out, in effrot to grasp the iamge in my mind, and give motions like i was hugging someone, namely, the image of my girlfriend.
i just need to know: Is this natural?
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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:36 pm
I think that you just miss her. But, I think that it's mostly normal... Although I've never heard of the aches and what-not.. =/ You might miss her an awful lot though... But hopefully whenever you see her, the aches and pains go away. smile Why don't you get a picture of her and look at that whenever this comes along? I don't know if it would completely work or not, but hopefully this can give you a feeling or her being close to you.
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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:15 pm
Yeah it's pretty normal.
Do you guys have like phone numbers/email addresses? That might help ease it a little bit.
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Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 8:44 pm
sorry about my late late late reply,
to II_l0V3_MUSiiC_II
From how it feels, it's like having lost a limb in terms of how bad(painful) the aches are, and trust me i tried the pic thing, only made me begin fidgeting, but thanks for the advice...however...i may've solved the problem
to xXSuperWhateverXx
yes we do, but her email is not working and she doesnt like to eat up cell battery and her home number is her mom's family-ran business number, so thats kinda a minimally effective one...but we did agree we need a day every so often to hang out outside of church, just havent set one up yet...also...
to all:
We've gotten closer, At church i often place my arm behind her back when sitting down and my hand on her shoulder, which that hand-on-shoulder thing she triggered by moving it the first time herself, and lately she's been holding onto my hand...
Somehow that physical connect breaks the aches away for about 14 days of being apart at most...but i've also got greater news:
This girl is now my Fiancé.
we're hoping for September 2011 to be the month of the event.
anyhow i appreciate y'alls help
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