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Cloud_Murasama

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:33 pm


okay me and one of my ex's are currently having a txt conversation he said,

ex: babe i need u im bout to kill my self
me: why kill urself?
ex: Cause i cant live without you
me: u can live with out me..
ex: no i cant babe please
me: Why not -name- why do u need me soo damn bad?
ex: because i love u
me Do u love me or, do u jest want me... 4 ur own, is it lust or is it love?
ex: wow
me: What?
ex: i cant believe u
me how?
ex: u lied to me
me: what do u mean?
ex: when u said u loved me
me: all i asked is it lust or love???
ex: Love
me: -name- i do love u but im just... look please gimme awhile okay sum shits been going down and i need sum time okay.... please

im afriad cause he's tried suicide b4 the first time i broke up with him....
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:36 pm


half the time, people like that are just trying to control you so they can't lose you. i've heard of people who go back to "suicidal" lovers, and then it turns into an abusive relationship. tell him you just wanna be friends, but if he's having a real problem, he needs to get some real help.

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:41 pm


I see this kind of thing all the time, though it's never happened to me, but I'll tell you what I think... If you want to be with him, start out as friends again and see where it goes. If not, still ask to stay friends... but he's going to need you to talk him through it, and it would be better if it wasn't in a text message. Tell him that you don't want to see him hurt himself, especially over you. Just try and talk things out with him... it will all be okay. :]
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:46 pm


no he has tried b4 but he failed.... and i just dont really love him anymore like i used 2......

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 8:57 pm


This s**t happens over and over and over. He's not really gonna kill himself. He just wants to make you come crawling back to him. Just tell him you don't love him anymore, and if he actually does kills himself, it's not your fault, it's only his.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 3:19 pm


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This s**t happens over and over and over. He's not really gonna kill himself. He just wants to make you come crawling back to him. Just tell him you don't love him anymore, and if he actually does kills himself, it's not your fault, it's only his.

Ditto. Seriously, he needs help. AND it is so not your fault if he kills himself.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 4:38 pm


ok u need to pretend that ur not gay anymore and try and help him not become gay wait till he is straight then once he has a gf u go gay behind is back and cut off all communication or just go straight with him or go bi
PostPosted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 7:55 pm


I think you people are quite rude with the screw it just let him die its not "Your" fault, that can cause emotional stress and could cause him to kill himself. you could say it in a nicer way.

lantob

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