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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 12:44 pm

Hey guys,
I'm a chick, and I was just wondering a few things about orgasms.
I think I've been having some recently but I've never had it happen before so
I don't know whether or not it's just the 'buildup felling' or the actual thing.

I know it's hard to tell, but what does it feel like? I always hear that its
'indescribable' or 'something you just have to experience', but I mean, at
least SOME clarification would help. What I feel is basically a kind of
tickling, extremely pleasurable feeling but it gets to be too much for me to
handle and I have to stop. Since I've never had one before, I'm
concerned that maybe I'm just not used to it yet, and I can't handle it.
Am I stopping too soon to actually get to the point or am I already
experiencing it?

Another thing that might help you diagnose is the actual time factor. It
only takes about 6 to 10 seconds for me to reach this point and then the
actual feeling only lasts around 2 seconds. I know that it's different for
each girl, and some of my friends told me it's rather hard for them to get one.

Any type of information or clarification would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks guys :')

Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 1:43 pm

Most women feel a pleasurable sensation along with vaginal contractions when they orgasm. It usually only lasts a few seconds.

You did not mention vaginal contractions, and it takes most people longer than 6 to 10 seconds of masturbation or other sexual activity to get to the point of orgasm. So from what you have said so far I am guessing that you're stopping before you actually orgasm.

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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 11:12 pm

You will most likely know. The buildup to an orgasm feels very good, but for most people the actual orgasm is MUCH more powerful/pleasurable. For me, it takes about 15 minutes (or 2 if I'm masturbating while driving lol ) and the orgasm lasts about 5 seconds. It comes with small vaginal contractions (feels like your v****a is spasming) and I get considerably wetter.

Also, after I have orgasmed my clitoris is very sensitive and it does not feel good to touch myself again until I have had at least a half hour break.

Are you using a vibrator or a vibrating massager? When I first discovered masturbation I used a back massager, and the intensity of the vibration was too much to handle during the actual orgasm.

Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 2:25 pm

I explain an orgasm kind of like sneezing.. That feeling that you are going to sneeze, then it finally releases, then you don't have that tickling feeling anymore, and are rested.
I'm not exactly sure from your description if you have had one or not. Yes, you experience a good feeling. That's the beginning parts: excitement + plateau. Orgasm is the part that seems to "explode" or send that good feeling over the top. Then is the refractory/rest stage which is the resolution. In this last stage, it may feel strange or painful if you try to continue because your body needs to rest for a little while. Maybe try different techniques if one thing you are doing doesn't bring you to orgasm. Many girls that I have heard from either take a while to orgasm or do not orgasm at all. It doesn't mean you are doing anything wrong. Touch yourself if it feels good and stop if it no longer does- that's really the fun of it.

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kristinah321

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Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2010 8:51 am

well it really depends on what you feel. some will take more time to feel and some just stops and says they cant describe it.

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