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 Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 6:40 pm
Ashmerna Hello I am 95% sure I'm gay and the remaining % is left open for bisexuality but I doubt it. I am male (and no the avatar does not refelct a desire to be female)*shivers at the though of having it chopped off*. I am quite young ,14. I found out when I was 12 after 6-9 months of struggling with idea I accepted it. Now I have moved and have no female friends unlike at last place I lived(I am quite strange even for a gay person rolleyes xd people avoid me in general). The question I ask is do I come out now or wait until I'm older to avoid many years of awkwardness? If I go for it who should I tell (I do have male friends and they are unfortunatly 100% straight not attracted to them either)? How do I stand school kids no one is gay it's a very small town. help is good.
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 6:43 pm
I do have 2 females friends but I barely know them. We still all laugh like crazy
*thinks about our laughing* nose bleed fountain!! rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 7:40 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 9:41 pm
first off you have to know sometimes thing run a little slow. A lot of people live all over the world and have diffrent times they can get on. so hopefully some one will respond in time. you just have to wait.
now weather or not you tell someone and when will truely be up to you all i have to offer if what my experiences were and hope that they can help even a little. every situation if diffrent. so many factors to take in. now i didnt really say anything to anyone. i was pretty much an outcast threw junior high and high school. yes i did have a group of freinds, strange as they might have been but i never said it directly to them. but some of them could tell in the way i acted. no i didnt act like the sterio type gay person. but i wasnt like any other guy either. but i did eventually start telling my close freinds and most of them understood. some didnt and some i havent seen for over 4 years. but it depends on who you feel comfertable with knowing. maybe you dont want to tell them right now and want to wait a while long. maybe just hint at it and see how they react. I think you have to find the right moment and just go with it. You cant relly tell when it will be but hopefully youll find it and things will go good from it.
but right now your young and have such a long life ahead. so you have plenty of time to do whatever you want.
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Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2005 10:02 pm
this message (not this thread) has been up for around 24 hours. sry I'm new here and by looking at the voulmous(sp?) amounts of members and posts I figured it was a fast paced guild. Thanks for the help.
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