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 Posted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 1:58 pm
i don't need necessarly advice as just a comfort that this is the right thing to do. Friendship is tough sometime i understand that i do. i had a friend and love her with all my heart and soul like i was suppose to. And then outta nowhere she turned on me. I know she doesn't want to talk to me now but others are certain she will come back running.
but if and when she does should i just take her back with no sorries or anything. or just leave her indefiantly. I feel good and free right now.
i think leaving her defaintly would be best and so does everyone else soo...whatcha think
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Posted: Wed Dec 02, 2009 11:27 am
That's a tough one. I tend to be the forgiving type, so take that into consideration when you read my advice.
I would take her back as long if she asks you to. Everyone deserves a second chance. But if she does the same thing again, then you might need to consider stepping away from her.
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Posted: Wed Dec 02, 2009 4:03 pm
If it's who I think it is, I'd be careful, if I were you. There are people on that girl's side who are against it and all, but I know you know that.
Is this the girl Shay told me about? :/ And the whole myspace thing?
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 7:59 am
ok for one some time friends go through s**t that makes them do sertin things the best thing u can try to do is try to get through to them finde out whats wrong and why what ever happend happend then work it out and if u cant finde any middle ground or u do be friends again and she does the same s**t just simply tell her to ******** off biggrin and if she comes back to u stab her in the eye with a rust covered lemon diped french frie
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 3:51 am
Letting friends go.. ya.. been there a few times. It's hard, but you have to figure out if they were worth being friends with. Think of a few things.. if the bad out ways the good, you'd be better off.
I had a friend who I spent like every waking moment with. I loved her to death. But she was always making me do stuff I didn't want to, like stealing from my mom and smoking pot right before school.. stuff like that. She bullied me all the time and once even tried to steal my boyfriend. I always forgave her. She went away for a while.. she started doing meth and got even worse when she came back. I stopped answering her calls, and since my mom had forbidden her from my house, she had no way to get to me anymore even though she lived a few streets away.
A while back she messaged me on myspace and I got the closure I really wanted. She asked if we could be friends again. I told her.. I would always love her and that she was once a great friend. I told her that I would always remember her, but that I just couldn't have someone like her in my life because she brought too much trouble, but I let her know that there were no hard feelings.
It was a hard thing to do.. but the right thing. We both walked away like adults and always have our memories.
I know that whole thing sounds gay, but that's the truth. And maybe it was a bit gay. XD
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 4:28 am
If you feel that in your heart that it's the right thin to do, let her go. If you make up your mind to leave her, she'll most likely come back running.
But being a true friend means that your willing to take somebody back no matter what they've done to you in the past. Granted, she would have to admit to hurting you.
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Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2010 11:37 am
This is a tough one, for sure. If she comes back, and you still want to be her friend, I say talk it out first. There is absolutely no harm in talking about the past and stuff. And, if from that, you can be her friend once more, then go for it. If not, then it's best to not be her friend again.
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