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Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 9:37 am
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Addykat Edge Zero Quote: • Forces you to have sexual intercourse or engage in sexual acts against your will. For the record, this is considered rape/sexual assault. If your significant other is doing this, it really needs to stop. Doesn't matter if you are in a relationship, if you say no and they keep going - that is rape.
Sadly lots of people don't see that. :<
@Kaliea: GAY. It was Kevin's gf wasn't it. ;(
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Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 11:31 am
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chinotenshi Addykat Edge Zero Quote: • Forces you to have sexual intercourse or engage in sexual acts against your will. For the record, this is considered rape/sexual assault. If your significant other is doing this, it really needs to stop. Doesn't matter if you are in a relationship, if you say no and they keep going - that is rape. This is a lot harder to get out of then you think. confused What do you mean?
If you press charges any court will (should - I understand that some people are like *eyeroll*) take your side. Sure, he'll try to talk you into it and maybe yes, you've consented in the past, but for ANY reason you are allowed to say no. And if he doesn't respect that ... :[
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Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:17 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:56 pm
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Addykat chinotenshi Addykat Edge Zero Quote: • Forces you to have sexual intercourse or engage in sexual acts against your will. For the record, this is considered rape/sexual assault. If your significant other is doing this, it really needs to stop. Doesn't matter if you are in a relationship, if you say no and they keep going - that is rape. This is a lot harder to get out of then you think. confused What do you mean? If you press charges any court will (should - I understand that some people are like *eyeroll*) take your side. Sure, he'll try to talk you into it and maybe yes, you've consented in the past, but for ANY reason you are allowed to say no. And if he doesn't respect that ... :[ The fear that if you do press charges or try to press charges, they'll do something extreme, like beat you, rape you more, try to kill you, try to commit murder-suicide, etc. makes it very difficult to approach the authorities if you have nowhere to run and hide. The mental state that the abuse gets you in, makes it seem like there is nothing you can do to get out of it.
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Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 3:40 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 4:20 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 26, 2009 8:07 am
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Addykat It's hard to get out of that mental state but there -are- places you can go, shelters to protect women from that happening. If you DO end up going to the authorities they can contact specialists and keep you safe from any backlash from him. Unfortunately nobody really knows about stuff like this. :c
I was in an abusive marriage, and I knew about these things. I still didn't go. It's not that no one knows. It's very easy to find some place to go, some one to talk to. That's not what stops someone. It's the fear. It's the reprecussions. It's knowing you could, might, and will most likely lose someone you love even though they treat you like s**t. It's restarting your life, and getting away. Putting behind your past, and fixing yourself. It's moving on. It's not easy. Sure you can encourage someone, and don't give up hope and yadda yadda yadda, but unless you've been there, it's hard to really understand all the things that make you put off getting help, or taking control. There is just so much you have to do some times. So many things you have to realize and admit to.
Also, you have to think the authorities can only do so much. They can't solve everything. They can help you. But when it comes down to it, a restraining order is only a piece of paper. It's not 24 hour body guards. Things have to be horrific in order to get that sort of thing, and even then, you might only have the cops drive past your place occasionally. I won't say they do nothing, because they can certainly help, and anyone in an abusive relationship should go to them for help. But don't expect a miracle over night. It takes time.
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Posted: Thu Nov 26, 2009 1:55 pm
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