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Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 6:42 pm
Hello. I have a little question, has anyone here ever been in a threesome? Me and my boyfriend are considering it, but we'd like a bit of advice as to how to do it without being awkward and all that. But mainly, we'd like to hear a few stories to know how it affected the couple afterwards. We're in a serious relationship and we don't want to lose it just for a threesome, so I'd appreciate a little help.
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Posted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 7:08 pm
I am pretty sure that we have a thread for this matter already. but regardless, I am a virgin so I can't really speak much about the topic. I have had a friend talk to me about it, and as long as both members of the relationship are interested I am sure it could work =)
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Posted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 6:20 pm
is it safe for threesomes?
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Posted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 6:27 pm
I'm actually quite curious about this too, nyaa~
I wouldn't know myself, but I would be careful when choosing a third-- someone that you know wouldn't be "awkward" or go tell everyone, for sure... and someone that you can trust. I wouldn't go find a stranger--not that I'm accusing you of being someone that would do so...
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Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:07 am
I have had a few experiences with 3sums so if anyone here wants to hear my stories or have questions that need answers I'll gladly answer them for you. Dont be afraid to ask.
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Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 12:14 am
▂▂ ▃▃ ▅▅ ▆▆ ████ ▆▆ ▅▅ ▃▃ ▂▂ It's time to stop the killing I said it's time to stop the stealing It's time to stop disrespecting our women. ╔═════════════════════════════════════╗
I have been in two different threesomes, both of them bored me to death but that's because I was the addition and there's only so much three women can do.
You need to talk thoroughly with each other beforehand. Talk about the situation, make sure that you're able to put your thought in on what will be happening that way it cannot be taken over. Share his idea of the fantasy, try to incorporate something you would enjoy.
If your man has never cheated on you, then bring up the fact that you both should be picking out the girl. This allows the fact that both of you will be enticed in the situation and if you're a jealous woman, like me, it'll make sure he doesn't pick someone that makes you angry.
If he has cheated on you, this is an uneasy move, and I would not advise you to do so.
╚═════════════════════════════════════╝It's time for us to come home and raise our children It's time for us, to really mold our communities It's time for us, not to get hooked up in religion. ▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄
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Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 7:44 pm
Make sure that you both agree on boundaries. For example: no kissing the 3rd person on the lips, or no actual intercourse with the 3rd person (like if you get a guy he's not allowed to ge inside of you, or if you get a girl then your boyfriend isn't allowed to go inside of her), etc. Just make sure you both know what sort of things would make either of you uncomfortable.
Personally, I would never do a threesome unless I was the "guest star" because I get jealous very easily.
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Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:53 pm
well see on mine the only way that I could have a threesome was if a guy was in the mix so we ended up having a foursome and it was anything goes including intercourse and swapping partners but we all had protection. you can have alot of fun when you can do anything to the other and Im still with my girl that we did the foursome with and we still love each other. smile
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