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 Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 9:30 pm
Well Its Sorta hurtful Because
Well We Have Evreything in common I mean Evreything Music And We Known
Each Other For a Long Time 4-5 years since we went out Evreything Changed For me (Im a Jelous Fool Also) My grades were d's Went Up to b's And A's, I was Happy so was she made a real impact in my life Until Jelousy Poped Up....
She Was Talking to her ex Bf And He Pushed Her She Broke Her Arm (this was on school grounds)Evreyone was Gone B/c It was 9:00 and I went with her to the hospital .....I was With Her For 5 days in the hospital....
Then She was still in there and i went back to school.. I saw His Old Bf....
We had 3rd and second period together i ask him , "why He Did It" ,
U might get pressed charges....... He said I Dont Care I Screamed WHY U DONT CARE U HURT HER" the teacher asked what was going on..... And I Said Nothing
Then He Called Me A b***h I Punched Him In the Face .......He cried alot....
I scremed in his face The teacher threw me off....
I went to the office I told the Princeipal why i did it.......
And I got suspended for a week .... my mom got pissed.....
and after that she got better.... SHe Knew i was staying home....I went to the school to pick her up.... And She was talking to him.....
Laughing and giggling...I screamed b***h and Tackled him and Punch him in the face once again
Went to the office got suspended for 1 more week and he said if i do it again i
get kicked out of school.......
Is this really worth the pain..... question
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 2:39 am
Deathguitar Well Its Sorta hurtful Because Well We Have Evreything in common I mean Evreything Music And We Known Each Other For a Long Time 4-5 years since we went out Evreything Changed For me (Im a Jelous Fool Also) My grades were d's Went Up to b's And A's, I was Happy so was she made a real impact in my life Until Jelousy Poped Up.... She Was Talking to her ex Bf And He Pushed Her She Broke Her Arm (this was on school grounds)Evreyone was Gone B/c It was 9:00 and I went with her to the hospital .....I was With Her For 5 days in the hospital.... Then She was still in there and i went back to school.. I saw His Old Bf.... We had 3rd and second period together i ask him , "why He Did It" , U might get pressed charges....... He said I Dont Care I Screamed WHY U DONT CARE U HURT HER" the teacher asked what was going on..... And I Said Nothing Then He Called Me A b***h I Punched Him In the Face .......He cried alot.... I scremed in his face The teacher threw me off.... I went to the office I told the Princeipal why i did it....... And I got suspended for a week .... my mom got pissed..... and after that she got better.... SHe Knew i was staying home....I went to the school to pick her up.... And She was talking to him..... Laughing and giggling...I screamed b***h and Tackled him and Punch him in the face once again Went to the office got suspended for 1 more week and he said if i do it again i get kicked out of school....... Is this really worth the pain..... question I would really think it is worth the pain because your defending your loved one. I mean I did the exact same thing to my girlfriend's (now my fiance) ex bfand we both went at it for like an hour until his parents came out of his house. The question to you is was it worth it? If you think it was worth you geting suspended then it was.
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 7:03 am
Why was she in the hospital for five days for just a broken arm? Are you sure it wasn't anything more serious? I remember when I broke my arm, I was only in the hospital about two hours, just reset and plaster.
Either way, to answer your question, yes and no. Yes, it's worth protecting her and defending her. No, it's not worth getting suspended/injured over. There is no need for you to retaliate in the way you did. I understand that you are angry, but this doesn't solve the problem. All it does is make him even angrier and you in trouble with school. Not only that, but if he ever does something serious, he can always say "well he attacked me in class!" and you get in trouble.
What you should have done from the begining is talk to the police/school about his attack on his girlfriend. Press charges. If he did enough damage to put her in the hospital for five days, you might even be able to get him out of the school for good.
I just want to point out, by the way, how unfair the US school system is. I am a lamb, no record of hurting anyone. I never even got a detention. But I had a pocket knife on me (I come from Europe. I had no idea Americans were so sensitive about this stuff). It was one of those tiny Swiss Army knives. An ex-boyfriend decided to get me in trouble and told the principal about it (so it's not even like I was flashing it around in school or anything).
I was permanently kicked out of school and legally not allowed to step foot on public school grounds for a full year.
This was about a week after a kid was angry (failed a test or something, I think), picked up a 9th grader, and slammed the poor kid into a wall breaking his wrist. This guy, who was ACTUALLY violant and had a history of getting in trouble, was suspended for one day.
Complete bullocks. Anyways, that's my rant for the day.
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 1:35 pm
See if you can protect or defend her some other way, because although yes it is worth it trying to defend her, it's not worth getting kicked out of school for being violent. As Kukushka said, sometimes the school system can be completely retarded.
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 9:54 pm
What confuses me the most is, if he pushed her, and broke her arm, why was she seen giggling and laughing with him? I mean sure, I beleive in forgiveness but I mean it can only go so far.
I got kicked out of school once for breaking a kids nose. I've always been extremely protective of my female friends and one day a friend of mine came to me after school, crying, and told me that her Ex BF, infront of everyone in the cafeteria, called her a filthy skank, told her that if she was his dog he's shave her a** and make her walk backwards, and announced to everyone that she had given him oral sex and swallowed. Me and my friend (We called him tank... guess why?) waiting until everyone was changing back into their uniform after P.E. and we hurt him. I'm not saying that I'm proud of my violent behavior but I do think it was worth it. I think he reaped as he sowed.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 6:44 am
Deathguitar Well Its Sorta hurtful Because Well We Have Evreything in common I mean Evreything Music And We Known Each Other For a Long Time 4-5 years since we went out Evreything Changed For me (Im a Jelous Fool Also) My grades were d's Went Up to b's And A's, I was Happy so was she made a real impact in my life Until Jelousy Poped Up.... She Was Talking to her ex Bf And He Pushed Her She Broke Her Arm (this was on school grounds)Evreyone was Gone B/c It was 9:00 and I went with her to the hospital .....I was With Her For 5 days in the hospital.... Then She was still in there and i went back to school.. I saw His Old Bf.... We had 3rd and second period together i ask him , "why He Did It" , U might get pressed charges....... He said I Dont Care I Screamed WHY U DONT CARE U HURT HER" the teacher asked what was going on..... And I Said Nothing Then He Called Me A b***h I Punched Him In the Face .......He cried alot.... I scremed in his face The teacher threw me off.... I went to the office I told the Princeipal why i did it....... And I got suspended for a week .... my mom got pissed..... and after that she got better.... SHe Knew i was staying home....I went to the school to pick her up.... And She was talking to him..... Laughing and giggling...I screamed b***h and Tackled him and Punch him in the face once again Went to the office got suspended for 1 more week and he said if i do it again i get kicked out of school....... Is this really worth the pain..... question My brotha from anotha motha! It's only worth the pain if she truly means something to you. It's only worth the pain if she makes you feel different. It's only worth the pain if you hurt inside because of her. Out of all seriousness bro, it's always worth the pain for someone special. Take it from a guy who has been there before.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 2:26 pm
No. You are doing something terribly wrong. You aren't protecting her. She was having a good time. You have no right to go into other people's business. What if they're friends who just joke around? Don't waste your school time on her! School's more important (on a scale). Tell her how you feel about everything and she'll understand.
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Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:32 pm
CrystalCharm No. You are doing something terribly wrong. You aren't protecting her. She was having a good time. You have no right to go into other people's business. What if they're friends who just joke around? Don't waste your school time on her! School's more important (on a scale). Tell her how you feel about everything and she'll understand. Agreed! Your violent behavior is both immature and unproductive. Get a grip, or get therapy. I know if I was your girlfriend, I wouldn't even want to be around you because I'd be afraid of you.
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 10:21 am
I think it was worth it. Sadly, I don't want to get arrested, so I haven't done that. I haven't been pushed that far though. yet.
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Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 6:19 pm
You might want to ask her how she feels about him? I mean, they were laughing right?
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:12 am
For her to be laughing at him and tickling him after he did that isnt right. I dont understand. If it wasnt on purpose then maybe...
You should really talk to her about it.
As for fighting in school...that's stupid. Yes, it's a good thing to fight for the one that you love but school isnt the place.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 11:08 pm
Deathguitar Well Its Sorta hurtful Because Well We Have Evreything in common I mean Evreything Music And We Known Each Other For a Long Time 4-5 years since we went out Evreything Changed For me (Im a Jelous Fool Also) My grades were d's Went Up to b's And A's, I was Happy so was she made a real impact in my life Until Jelousy Poped Up.... She Was Talking to her ex Bf And He Pushed Her She Broke Her Arm (this was on school grounds)Evreyone was Gone B/c It was 9:00 and I went with her to the hospital .....I was With Her For 5 days in the hospital.... Then She was still in there and i went back to school.. I saw His Old Bf.... We had 3rd and second period together i ask him , "why He Did It" , U might get pressed charges....... He said I Dont Care I Screamed WHY U DONT CARE U HURT HER" the teacher asked what was going on..... And I Said Nothing Then He Called Me A b***h I Punched Him In the Face .......He cried alot.... I scremed in his face The teacher threw me off.... I went to the office I told the Princeipal why i did it....... And I got suspended for a week .... my mom got pissed..... and after that she got better.... SHe Knew i was staying home....I went to the school to pick her up.... And She was talking to him..... Laughing and giggling...I screamed b***h and Tackled him and Punch him in the face once again Went to the office got suspended for 1 more week and he said if i do it again i get kicked out of school....... Is this really worth the pain..... question I respect you fended for your girlfriend at first after her ex broke her arm and was apathetic. However, I don't agree when you hit him when she was laughing with him. I understand, you are her boyfriend and he's her ex. However, that does not mean you have control over what men she can or can't interact with, especially him. Next time, just take a big breath. Count to ten. You need a way to leash and control your anger and jealousy. You need to learn to respect him. You cannot just start attacking your girlfriend's ex-s just because they're laughing together. Sorry, all of my "you need"s are purely my opinion, I apologize about the preaching. But, I hope you understand where I'm coming from. --My answer to your question: it should be worth the pain. ask yourself what your girlfriend is to you. Is she a damsel you're always protecting? Or, are you both on the same level, emotionally; are you both connected? I guess it's hard for me to explain because you've only covered this part of your relationship.
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Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 11:14 pm
Undying Sorrow My brotha from anotha motha! It's only worth the pain if she truly means something to you. It's only worth the pain if she makes you feel different. It's only worth the pain if you hurt inside because of her. Out of all seriousness bro, it's always worth the pain for someone special. Take it from a guy who has been there before. --Sorry, I'm terribly nosy, but after all my experience from dating...every single girl is going to make you feel different. Different people draw out different attributes from you, good or bad. Btw, one last annoying comment: is this supposed to be in the relationships subforum?
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