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 Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 11:00 pm
Aight, so mah ex that royally messed meh up just found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her...the same guy who took her from meh because he coveted her. It's really been botherin meh fer the past few days and I cant really even begin to describe how bad I want to call her and tell her that he was always just a douche. But I know she wont answer mah call anyways so I just stare at the fone and go back to mah work. Im not lookin ta get back with her, i dont really know WHAT Im lookin fer. I guess redemption? I dunno... I want to clear mah name. I dont want her ta hate meh anymore. She only lives an hour away, but I dont have the excess flow right now to spend on that kinda gas, should I send her flowers and a letter? Would she even read it knowing it was from meh?
I had to have a close friend talk to meh fer a long time to convince meh ta not drive up there to beat the guys face in. In mah eyes it would be worth the prison again for him hurting her. Ugh... what the ********. its been six months, shouldnt I just have stopped caring by now people?
so I'm not sure what im askin fer... oppinions I guess. Advice would be more than welcome. If possible try and refrain from a "Wolfy I hope things get better" because that doesnt really progress any chains of thought, which is what I need right now. Not that the care and love isnt appreciated, I'm just trying fer some outside influence.
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Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 11:06 pm
Alright Wolfy. I know where you are. You NEED to get that crap off your chest. Call. Tell. And go from there. If it comes to a necessity to throw fists, do it. I'm here for you mate.
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spirit-robyn1993 Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:05 am
You care for someone and that care never stops. You have to show her you care. Be the friend she needs at this moment. That douche bag will face retribution when he ends up all alone. Just know that she will get better, but you can help. Not with flowers, but something nice and small to show that you are her friend and that you care.
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Posted: Tue Nov 17, 2009 9:17 am
Hm If it were me I would of already beat him Shitless.
You see, one time while i was dating a few years back this really awfull guy was being a real idiot and was being mean to my Ex. So after i couldn't take anymore I just beat the hell out of him and he uh 'left with his tail between his legs'. AND DAMN I FELT GOOD! *ahem* but that's in the past I don't have such a short fuse anymore.
And Wolfie if she was easily converted to some other guy then I don't think chasing that tail is really worth it. BUT (there's always a but) then again your not me. If and when you get put into the right position (you'll know when that time comes) call her, comfort her, and Tell her what an a*****e he was. That's Really the only thing I think you Could do.
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