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In the past, with my experiences of Wicca, when I wanted everything to fit in, EVERYWHERE, and I was very pushy of myself, I forced myself to believe magic was a LITERAL energy, and now I tend to feel like rituals, and spells are motivational tools, or to be used to generate aspirations towards something. I don't think it works without your own efforts.

dose crusing count???

Also dietary factors can help as well. Eating more fruits, veggies, beans, and whole grains, as opposed to refined carbs, fatty dairy products, and red meat can really help as well. I managed to lose over twenty pounds in the past nine months with diet alone. Just remember to eat helathfully though. Annorexia, bulemia, and malnutrition are not exactly desirable things to have.

Either that or learn to love your curves. I'm still a curvateous woman, and I would never want to give up my voluptous bosom and filled-out hips for a petite figure.