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 Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 5:52 pm
Yeah this is a really weird thread but whatever.
Been going out with this girl for a while now and she's always been a bit rough but tonight she went all out and started scratching and pulling etc. tbh it turned me on and I liked it at the time but when we'd finished after I walked her home I looked at my body and saw loads of scratches over my chest, back and arms.
I will tell her to stop because it kinda interrupts my line of work if I have scratches all over my body but I just want to ask if anyone else does this or is it normal? It seems a bit weird to me but at the same time it was quite a turn on.
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 5:57 pm
Yes, that is normal. Everyone likes different things in bed. Some people are gentle, while others are rough. And some people can be either one depending on the situation! Some people like to scratch, some like to bite, some like to pull hair, some like to slap, some like to tie their partner to the bed, etc.
As long as both people enjoy it, it's not usually problem. But yeah, if she's leaving marks on you that others might see, it's ok to ask her to stop, cool it down, or just do it in more hidden areas. wink
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:32 pm
Pretty much what Lorien said. If she's hurting you or leaving marks in obvious places, and it's bothering you, you can ask her to tone it down, leave marks in places that aren't as obvious, or stop altogether.
There's nothing really weird about scratching, everyone is different and has different personal preferences. smile
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Posted: Fri Jan 08, 2010 5:33 am
It's a very normal thing to do, I've been known to do it form time to time, it tends to only be when it's really good so maybe you should take it as a compliment. wink
As others have said, if you really aren't enjoying it, tell her so. Sex should be a two-way thing (or more if that's what you're into). Everyone involved should be enjoying it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:56 pm
 I appoint *you* Secretary of Cheese, and I'd say it's pretty normal. I do it, but mostly because of a problem I have, it makes the first few minutes of sex pretty painful so I often scratch his shoulders, I don't realize I'm doing it, either, but he's never complained about it and he never goes anywhere without a shirt on (he's gets a pasty white tan line and the rest of him is tan all year round...it's kinda funny...) so no one ever sees them, either.
I'd just tell her to do it in a place where people can't see it if you don't really want her to stop. When my fiance says things like that to me, I don't take it as mean or anything, I completely understand, other girls should be able to understand their guy's feeling's too.  *you* Keeper of the Lint.
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Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 4:12 pm
angel_nicholson I'd say it's pretty normal. I do it, but mostly because of a problem I have, it makes the first few minutes of sex pretty painful Have you tried using additional lubrication? When a woman feels pain only at the beginning of sex it's usually a dryness issue. The pain goes away after her v****a gets properly lubricated.
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Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 4:14 pm
LorienLlewellyn angel_nicholson I'd say it's pretty normal. I do it, but mostly because of a problem I have, it makes the first few minutes of sex pretty painful Have you tried using additional lubrication? When a woman feels pain only at the beginning of sex it's usually a dryness issue. The pain goes away after her v****a gets properly lubricated. It's not a dryness issue, lol he's like 5 hours away at university, so I only spend time with him every two months, after a little while without sex it just really, really hurts. sweatdrop
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