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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 7:17 pm


Be harsh - tell him to get a life, from me, not you if you're really against being harsh. Tell him to go away, tell him ******** off, tell him not interested, slap him if he gets real bad. Authority involvement should be an absolute last resort.
PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 11:31 am


Remus J Lupin - Moony
Be harsh - tell him to get a life, from me, not you if you're really against being harsh. Tell him to go away, tell him ******** off, tell him not interested, slap him if he gets real bad. Authority involvement should be an absolute last resort.

I think I'll word it a bit differently, but that's what I plan on doing.
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:09 pm


I have a friend (we can call her Rebecca) who I haven't talked to in a while. We don't have the same classes or hang out with the same people anymore, but my other friend (lets say... Angela) keeps me up to date with everything that's going on with her when we have our weekly meetings (she has her own problems so she avoids her house as much as possible). About three weeks into the school year Rebecca met a guy named Ricky, whose a senior (high school). Rebecca however is a freshman and she's started to date this guy. They've been dating for three months now and he's turned 18 while she just turned 14 a little over a month ago. So far Angela has told me they've made out, and gone a little further but two weeks ago Angela told me Becca said they were going to do it. THen last week Ange told me they did.

I don't know if Becca is lying to Ange about this but I think she's telling the truth this time. I know Becca has problems at home (her mom is on husband number three and this one came with two kids of his own and her stepdad died two years ago) but she's gone too far looking for attention. The last thing Ange told me is that Ricky is planning on going of his anger control meds (oh boy) and breaking up with Becca. I want to talk to Becca about this but if I do I don't know what I should say. I don't want to say Ange has told me all of this and I don't want Becca mad at me for trying to control her but I'm worried about her. She's in over her head much too young and I'm afraid she'll turn into one of those people who is pregnant at sixteen and maybe never finishes high school.

Any advice?
PostPosted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:28 pm


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I have a friend ...

While there could be problems with this relationship(you must remember that you only heard this, you need to hear it from her before you do anything) the age gap itself is not a huge problem. 1-5 years in age difference is normal. My parents are five years apart and several of their friends have similar age differences.

If you care this much about her that you talk with your friend about her, you need to talk to her as well. Do you see her around school apart from the classes and such you no longer have? Does she do gaia? can you contact her easily? You'll want to get back in touch with her by maybe saying "Hey, I havn't talked to you in FOREVER! How've you been? what's new?" find something casual to talk about, and get to know the new her(how she's changed) before you get into subjects that might get a little touchy.
maybe that's just a rumor, and it may be easier to tell one way or another when you're talking to her.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 9:10 pm


Life is short-I am not
How do I tell a guy that I'm not interested without being harsh?

He won't take any hints I drop nicely, and he's starting to turn into a stalker. I kinda saw this happening, but I didn't want to be aweful. now I just try to avoid him till I know how to get him to stop following me.


ima guy, a girl told me flat out she didnt feel the same way. i say go with the truth, its mite hurt the guy, but truth is always better. if hes stalking u...could be cuz hes not over u.....u could remind him u arnt interested.
now remmeber im a guy, not a girl so......
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