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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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 Posted: Wed Aug 04, 2010 8:05 pm
98nh3609 i'm not entirely sure. i mean i find girls attractive, but im not sure about much after that,. other than my ex i dont really find girls attractive, like i want to have sex with her. but shes the only girl i do Then you're bi leaning towards guys.
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Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2010 5:00 pm
that makes alot of sense. thanks
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 11:36 am
i'm not sure how to come out to my father, i kinda did, but not really. i'm not sure he will under stand
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 12:47 pm
98nh3609 i'm not sure how to come out to my father, i kinda did, but not really. i'm not sure he will under stand good luck =]]
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 9:03 pm
98nh3609 i'm not sure how to come out to my father, i kinda did, but not really. i'm not sure he will under stand i would recommend not thinking about it too much. don't let it just "casually slip out", but at the same time, don't plan a speech or anything. honestly (and you're gonna think i'm retarded) the best advice is to expect the unexpected. cliche? yes. but you need to be prepared for EVERYTHING. interruptions, screamings of religious passages you weren't even aware he had memorized, a get-away plan in case some s**t goes down... of course, the probability of the last two scenerios are highly unlikely, but they are a reality in some households, and parents usually react in very strange, uncharacteristic ways, so you need to be emotionally ready for whatever happens.
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 6:58 am
Hi Zim XD
im am in a relationship with a guy and i am bi. my boyfriend thinks that im not bi because im not doing anything with girls. he is wrong!!. He also doesnt want me to do anything with girls. I have done stuff with close girlfriends and he says its cheating? is it really cheating if your doing stuff with the same sex? i respect that he doesnt want me too do anything but part of me wants to. What should i do? i really love him but i want to talk to him about this but i dont know how.
(does this make any sense?)
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 4:57 pm
Invader_Zim_lover4ever Hi Zim XD im am in a relationship with a guy and i am bi. my boyfriend thinks that im not bi because im not doing anything with girls. he is wrong!!. He also doesnt want me to do anything with girls. I have done stuff with close girlfriends and he says its cheating? is it really cheating if your doing stuff with the same sex? i respect that he doesnt want me too do anything but part of me wants to. What should i do? i really love him but i want to talk to him about this but i dont know how. (does this make any sense?) It's definitely cheating if you're fooling around with someone else when you're in a relationship. Sorry, but it works that way. Just because you don't actively do anything with chicks, doesn't mean you're not bi, and he has to respect that. If you really want to do stuff with chicks well... you have to break up with the guy. Or ask him to have an open relationship, but that doesn't work very well. As for talking to him about this... yea, I can tell you right now that there's probably no way that he's going to be altogether ok with you messing around with other girls. Sorry, but that's just gonna be a wee bit difficult for you to pull off.
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 6:34 pm
Heavy_m3tal_hippy Invader_Zim_lover4ever Hi Zim XD im am in a relationship with a guy and i am bi. my boyfriend thinks that im not bi because im not doing anything with girls. he is wrong!!. He also doesnt want me to do anything with girls. I have done stuff with close girlfriends and he says its cheating? is it really cheating if your doing stuff with the same sex? i respect that he doesnt want me too do anything but part of me wants to. What should i do? i really love him but i want to talk to him about this but i dont know how. (does this make any sense?) It's definitely cheating if you're fooling around with someone else when you're in a relationship. Sorry, but it works that way. Just because you don't actively do anything with chicks, doesn't mean you're not bi, and he has to respect that. If you really want to do stuff with chicks well... you have to break up with the guy. Or ask him to have an open relationship, but that doesn't work very well. As for talking to him about this... yea, I can tell you right now that there's probably no way that he's going to be altogether ok with you messing around with other girls. Sorry, but that's just gonna be a wee bit difficult for you to pull off. ok. thanks. i was just making sure. I just want him to understand that im still bi even though im not doing anything. I dont want to break up with him and i know. thanks for the advice!!
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 10:11 pm
hey man i just got out of a relationship with my best friend. were both bisexual he's with a guy now.(im not gonna go any further since were both trying to be friends again) ive been friends with him since high school right. I mean im happy for him and stuff but really the only girl i want to go out lives nine hours away from me, and she doesnt want to go out right now. i havent come out publicy not in front of my family i dont think they understand what its like to be bisexual and be attracted to both sexes. My aunt (godmother) is gay and my dad doesn't care. I have come out on Gaia because theres less hurt on the internet then it is in real life.
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