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 Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2009 9:23 pm
I want to try being somewhat rough with my boyfriend, but I'm not sure how a woman can be rough towards a man... I mean things like spanking and hair pulling wouldn't have the same effect when the roles are reversed. At least not IMO.
Does anyone have any ideas about how to be rough in a femenine way? Just anything you think is good or have had a successful experience with before.
I was thinking about holding his arms down while I am on top, biting, and talking dirty (do you guys think those are good?), but I'd like more ideas. Just a few things wouldn't be fun for very long.
Of course everyone has different preferences, which is why I like to get opinions/suggestions from as many different people as possible.
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Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2009 10:39 pm
The talking dirty while holding him down a bit actually sounds really good to me, I would love somebody to do that during such an intimate moment. Another good one I can imagine is some light use of your nails, I mean, obviously you don't want to claw him, but a few scratches, some grasping with your nails also sounds like fun... well at least to me. =D
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Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2009 11:53 pm
I have a pair of light plastic handcuffs, thought we haven't used them before. I do have a silk tie that I've used to lightly bind my boyfriend's hands above his head, and he said he thought that was hot.
Umm... I don't really do rough sex, so I can't give too many suggestions. Just stuff like if I'm riding him, I'll sit down harder than usual or I'll move a little faster, hold him a little closer, etc.
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Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:23 pm
i say try to test your limits
if youre on top try holding him down and if he doesnt struggle then take it further, scratch him talk dirty and i used to enjoy asphyxiation.. (:
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Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:39 pm
I always talk dirty but it always makes me more in to it than him stare but just try stuff out and see whether or you two like it
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Posted: Wed Oct 07, 2009 10:57 pm
Thanks for the suggestions guys. (:
I have used my nails on him somewhat and he likes that.
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Posted: Thu Oct 08, 2009 11:53 am
Biting, sucking, scratching and dirty talk are my favourites for doing it rough.
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Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 12:41 am
He likes eating me out so I was thinking about suddenly straddling his face and ordering him to do it, but I'm not sure if that would be too much, haha. Guess I'll have to ask him how he would feel about it.
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Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 12:43 am
BTW, does anyone ever feel like it is unsexy to just talk blatantly to your partner about likes/dislikes? I tend to be very frank and tell/ask without hesitation, but I get the impression that most people tend to just try things and gauge the reaction.
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Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 12:50 am
!namorata He likes eating me out so I was thinking about suddenly straddling his face and ordering him to do it, but I'm not sure if that would be too much, haha. Guess I'll have to ask him how he would feel about it. Everyone is different but I can honestly say that if my girlfriend did something like that I would love it, but again I am not your boyfriend As for your asking about blatantly bringing it up? again not the same, but I again feel as of that would be very sexy and if in a good context, rather intimate =D
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Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 1:06 pm
!namorata BTW, does anyone ever feel like it is unsexy to just talk blatantly to your partner about likes/dislikes? I tend to be very frank and tell/ask without hesitation, but I get the impression that most people tend to just try things and gauge the reaction. It definitely depends on the people and on the situation. With some people it's very obvious when they like something. So I might just try different things and see what gets the best reaction. Other people are not quite as obvious. My current partner is one of them. If it's a heat of the moment type thing, then I will generally just give basic suggestions like "faster" or "slower." He'll give slightly more directions than I will. But if it's not quite as heat of the moment, then my partner and I will sometimes have a fairly serious and blunt discussion about what we like, what we might like to try, etc.
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Posted: Thu Dec 24, 2009 11:12 pm
!namorata BTW, does anyone ever feel like it is unsexy to just talk blatantly to your partner about likes/dislikes? I tend to be very frank and tell/ask without hesitation, but I get the impression that most people tend to just try things and gauge the reaction. My first boyfriend yes it was for me, second boyfriend liked that I wanted to learn more to please him. Believe me, it is not unsexy, it just means you want to take time in learning his turn ons. As for being rough, the hair thing only works if the boyfriend has decent hair length. From my experience, biting doesn't work, but sucking the fingers does, that's my take.
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Posted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 2:00 am
Well...this guy I am seeing well we aint dating just casual stuff.
He loved it when I bite his neck, stick my fingers in his hair and rough it up, its weird because he loves it when I give him head, just because I have a tounge pericing and it makes him twitch.
But he loves it when I'm on top of him, lean down and kiss his chest and kiss him, but I bite his bottom lip aswell as it makes he go mad!
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