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 Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 1:39 pm
Ok... So there is this girl at school and she "caught my eye". I don't like her or anything. I just think she's cute and what not. I told my girlfriend about it and she wasn't happy. But lately since I've been seeing the girl around, I feel guilty. It's tearing me apart. I think about breaking up with my girlfriend to get my feelings set but I'm afraid she wouldn't take me back. I wouldn't imagine being apart from my girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my girlfriend because she wouldn't be happy and I would break her from feeling safe from hearing "I love you" which I worked so hard for. I love her but there is the other girl. I really don't know what to do...
Fellow members.... Will you please help me? cry
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Posted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 7:54 pm
trust me, dude. you're not alone. i lost my last gf for a similar reason. luckily, we're still great friends, so it's all good. i mean, like, she considers me her best friend, so it turned out well.
however, that's cuz we're both weird and unconventional enough to have it work out with a story-book ending. a vast majority of people WONT have a happy break up, and typically won't get the girl he or she is looking at. i suggest you get to know this other girl. is she worth leaving your gf? and search DEEP inside yourself. why do you feel guilty? are you undressing this chick with your eyes (haha, it's so hot down here, i didn't exactly have to use my imagination =P) or is it just a subtle fascination, or what? that's the most important thing: find out why you feel bad.
your instincts will guide you from there. we all make ourselves pass or fail. good luck, my friend.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 2:36 am
Like you my friend, I'm conflicted between girls, except I have three: my current girlfriend, a new girl who happens to be the cousin of an old friend, and the last one is girl I've known for three years before the other two. She told me I could "break-up" with her and date them and if things didnt work out I could get back with her. She said either date'em or bang'em, she didnt mind, yet when I asked her why she would do this and she told me she wants me to be happy and to have no regrets.
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