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well, i mean the very broad LGBT community. however, i'm talkin about what i've noticed in a small spectrum... am i making sense to anybody? haha.

ok, so like, i've realized something. a lot of gay people are hypocrites. i know, i know, it's human nature to be a hypocrite, but honestly, what ever happened to supporting your fellow brotha and man?

see, my friend and i were at a dance (well, all my friends, but i was talking to my male homosexual friend at one point) and he pointed at this chick across the gym and was like, "ew, i hate her."

well, since i don't know her very well but she seems pretty nice, i was like, "why?"

and he was like, "cuz look at her. she's so butch and, like, i dunno. it's gross."

so i was like, "dude, i'm at a dance in a tie, vest, button front shirt; how am i not just as butch as her?"

and he was like, "no. but like, you're different in butch ways, ya know?" or something like that.

ok. now here's what i didn't get. see, my friend's kinda scared of me; if he thought i dressed too butch or if it was "icky" or anything, he prolly wouldn't say it. but doesn't it make sense that if he's a gay guy and gets to frolic around in whatever the ******** he wants to, shouldn't a gay chick? and shouldn't he accept it more than anyone else because he's been in her position?

or perhaps it's just jealousy of her boldness to look as she desires while he's scared to be in PUBLIC dressed as he wants? it's just a bit hypocritical, but i've seen it on more occations than this, and with different gay people.

does it bug anyone else how hypocritical we all are towards each other and yet we're supposed to be equal in our community and fighting for the same freedoms and acceptance?! geez, people.