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 Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 8:22 am
My brother hits me. Alot. My older BROTHER.
A giant 14 year old football player beats up his gangly wimpy 12 year old baby sister.
I guess he never grew out of it when we were little.
He hits me in public
Sometimes people help
Most times people stare as a skinny 12 year old weakling gets beat up by a fresman.
He's also a hypocrite.
If I try to fight back (usually scratching his arm til he bleeds) he starts to yell at me and say that if I keep acting that "vicious" I'm gonna get thrown in jail when I'm older.
If he's pissed at anyone or anything, I usually get hurt. And he always acuses me of being unable to control my anger.
And when he's not physically abusing me, it's emotional abuse.
Always calling me stupid and ugly
He and my mom like to joke about how I was just an "oops"
I know what youre thinking "Get over it kid, my parents hated me too"
After three or four months of hearing you were just an accident, it really makes an impact, ya know?
And I'm sure you're expecting me to complain about school too.
No, I'm not. Honestly there is nothing to complain about, school just started. I like school, it's my only escape from my family
Back to my older brother
Yes, my parents know whats happening, but it feels like they gave up trying to get him to stop. (Theyre divorced BTW, I live with my mom)
I don't know what to do.
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Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 10:33 am
Get some counseling, if you want. One of my friends had the same problem, and counseling did help.
But if I were you,
I'd ruin his social life, and anything else he hold precious.
But, I'm not suggesting that. ninja
But if he wants to play with fire, you might as well burn him. heart
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Posted: Sun Aug 23, 2009 11:20 am
Child Protective Services.
This is a serious case of abuse and you should report it immediately. Look up the number online for your area or grab a phonebook.
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Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:24 pm
[Ashes][is][Ashes] Child Protective Services.
This is a serious case of abuse and you should report it immediately. Look up the number online for your area or grab a phonebook. I'm afraid of what might happen if I do........ My brother might move in with my dad But even if he does it'll be months before it actually happens
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Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 8:01 pm
How old is your brother?
If he's a minor and CPA determines that he's a threat to you or any member of your family he will most likely be placed in juvinile hall or a foster home until they determine he is no longer a threat.
If he's no longer a minor then he'll likely be arrested and placed on probation.
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Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 8:04 pm
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 7:25 pm
Should I start a new topic for this one?
Nevermind, I need more help now.
Two of my close female friends both have crushes on me, and I'm straight.
Neither of them know I know.
Now everything is akward and wierd
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Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:09 am
It's happened to me before too. We grew apart because she started having issues with holding friendships. Not the point.
Act normal. Don't let them know you know. Go about your life.
It's normal to be the object of someone's affections, hetero, homo, or bisexual. If they make their intentions obvious, act like you would if a guy you were friends with (but didn't want a relationship with) were doing the same thing.
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Posted: Sat Sep 12, 2009 3:34 pm
i say you can get counseling if you want or just tell your parents.....cuz if they won't listen, tell a counselor or something like that......i have issues of my own right now too that are kind of like that...so don't worry smile
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