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 Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 7:01 am
It sounds like muchilds (sp?) syndrom which seems dangerously like it will turn to muchilds syndrom bi-proxy (I have no idea if I'm spelling any of this right.) muchilds syndrom is where you make yourself sick, or make yourself look sick for attention, or to be loved. muchild syndrom bi-proxy is when you do the same thin except through your child. There is a chance sheis just scared but this looks dangerously like something someone I knew did, and now she has put her kid on so many drugs including an inhaler since he was born, he does not have asthma I have seen him run around with no problem what so ever.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 4:35 pm
Munchausen, I mentioned it smile
But yes, I do agree. A lot of women get a mild form of it because of the shock of attention transfer. During pregnancy, the mother gets all the attention. As soon as the birth occurs, the child gets all the attention. It can be an extremely tough transiton.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 3:38 am
I was way off with the spelling, but yes it worries me a lot because that seems like it is going to happen.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 2:44 pm
Lock_Shock_Barrel I was way off with the spelling, but yes it worries me a lot because that seems like it is going to happen. No problem smile It's a toughy. I had to look it up to double check. And I agree. If she's making up health problems now, imagine when the child is born! Even if she doesn't inflict anything directly, simply repeating to a child over and over again that he/she is sickly can do quite a bit of damage in and of itself.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 6:52 pm
Kukushka Lock_Shock_Barrel I was way off with the spelling, but yes it worries me a lot because that seems like it is going to happen. No problem smile It's a toughy. I had to look it up to double check. And I agree. If she's making up health problems now, imagine when the child is born! Even if she doesn't inflict anything directly, simply repeating to a child over and over again that he/she is sickly can do quite a bit of damage in and of itself. I know, I really wish people who would do that to a child wouldn't be allowed to have children...but unfortunately that is not possible.
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 4:04 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 4:43 pm
Ipstenu That's almost Munchausen's by Proxy, which is a little different (that's the person who breaks her kid's arm to get sympathy ... in a terrible example). You can read up on both hereDarn broken link.
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Posted: Sat Feb 25, 2006 7:28 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 8:46 am
ya...that sounds like my ant..... yup full of shat... it's nice for you to care about her but you can only take so much right? well good luck to ya!
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 9:44 am
The pill for drying up milk? You are aware that doctors don't give that out anymore. They haven't done that for YEARS because it's not very safe. They will not give you the pill to do that and lying to her and telling her her milk will go "sour" is on her level. If she' s that much of a liar, maybe you need to reevaluate what you see in your friends, to be honest.
Mention your concerns to her parents or whoeever is going to be helping take care of the baby. Also, it is possible to have rhythm kicks at 5 months and while highly doubtful a first time mom is feeling kicks at 3 months, it IS possible. It's also possible she's all ready battling PPD.
I would be careful not to enable her lies and not encouraging this behavior to continue. Decide if this is a pattern you want to be part of. Good luck.
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 4:07 pm
sorry i havent checked in\ the thread...
see the thing is their is no talking to her parents since shes 24...
but my friend Jodie and i have noticed a pattern...everything she says is wrong with the baby is the same or worst that what happened in our pregnancys...plus everything we've done or want to do she wants to do better...like how Jodie wanted to set up her daughter's room is that same way this person is setting up hers and the theme i had for my baby shes stolen...
and at partys if the attention isnt on her she leaves early...like Jodie's boyfriend's birthday party we had both our kids at and all the attention was on them so she made some excuse up to leave...and with her baby shower (which hasnt happened yet)she told Jodie she couldnt bring her daughter because their wasnt enough room in the car because her car was "packed"...with who i dont know since none of her family lives around here and all her friends have cars...
id hate to see after her kid is born because my friend jodie's daughter gets sick alot and my son went to the hospital already...if she is really trying to "out due us"
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 11:03 am
From doing volenteer work at the hospital and having worked with lots of sick babies, I think it is a lie. It is impossible to eel a baby at 3 months, even for a midget woman, if she got pregant. I've seen cases liek this, and the baby usually isn't not born, too sick to survive. She's full of s**t.
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 8:04 pm
It sounds like she is making some of it up. She may also want attention and comforting now that she is preggers
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 7:58 pm
Wow, some are definetely lies. Maybe she's just looking for attention and maybe she's nervous about what's going on.
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