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 Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 6:42 am
Before I get to the topic, I should give some of the back story.
My boyfriend Chris and I have been together on and off for about three, almost four, years now. Well, during our last break I found out he enlisted in the army, so I figured that I'd never see him again. Well, fate had other plans because we ended up bumping into each other again. The crazy part was that it happened while he was on a two week leave, which happened to be a few weeks before he was set to be sent to Iraq.
We initially tried the whole friendship thing, but it just didn't last. The passion and the longing for one another was just too strong, and we ended up sleeping together. Well, even though I wanted to pursue a relationship, he didn't think it was such a good idea since he was leaving to Iraq. I told him I'd wait for him, and I'd support him anyways. Two months later, he finally made us official.
So now here we are, nine months later. It's been uber hard being so far apart from one another. Since he's been gone so many bad things have gone in my life, like my grandma dying, and I just wished so badly that he could be here with me. Some how, though, I made it through. At the end of the month, he'll finally be coming home for two weeks! I'm so excited and nervous, it's driving me absolutely bananas, haha.
The sad part is, after the two weeks he has to go back to Iraq for another four months. It sucks so much because I feel like I'm the only person going through this. I know there has to be other gay couples going through the same thing, but I just don't know any. Anyways, I just had to get that out. My baby's coming home, and I so can't wait!
Oh, and he told me he wasn't going to lie to his family about spending time with me. His family doesn't know about his sexuality, and quite frankly they don't approve since they're religious people. Despite that, he said when his mom asks where he's going, he's going to be like "I'm going to go spend some time with my boyfriend, I'll see you later" and just walk out, haha.
Sorry for the long post, kudos to anyone who reads that monstrosity! ^^
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 1:23 pm
Congrats! Hope you have an awesome two weeks with him. And props to you for staying faithful.
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 9:12 pm
GameboyKnight Congrats! Hope you have an awesome two weeks with him. And props to you for staying faithful.
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 11:37 am
Sorry I did'nt respond to this sooner but lately Ive been too out of it to read think or communicate. I am happy for you, this is good news no? lol
I'm glad things are going your way.
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 3:57 pm
)igital~)evil Sorry I did'nt respond to this sooner but lately Ive been too out of it to read think or communicate. I am happy for you, this is good news no? lol I'm glad things are going your way.
Thanks Digi! Well, it's semi-good news. This time of him being back is going to determine if him and I stay together. So it can go either way. >_<
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Posted: Thu Aug 06, 2009 7:56 pm
i hope it all works out i really do because not many can stay faithful for that long hell i kind broke it off with my boyfriend and he was a senoir i was afraid that i was going to hold him back cause i was in my freshmen year i hurt him so bad i had to make him hate me so that he could forget about me it didn't work and now we ate very close friends. don't let it end for it could be the worst thing you could of done if you care that much about him
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Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 7:50 am
43v3r-4-4lon3 i hope it all works out i really do because not many can stay faithful for that long hell i kind broke it off with my boyfriend and he was a senoir i was afraid that i was going to hold him back cause i was in my freshmen year i hurt him so bad i had to make him hate me so that he could forget about me it didn't work and now we ate very close friends. don't let it end for it could be the worst thing you could of done if you care that much about him
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Posted: Fri Aug 07, 2009 10:30 pm
The Lonely Marionette 43v3r-4-4lon3 i hope it all works out i really do because not many can stay faithful for that long hell i kind broke it off with my boyfriend and he was a senoir i was afraid that i was going to hold him back cause i was in my freshmen year i hurt him so bad i had to make him hate me so that he could forget about me it didn't work and now we ate very close friends. don't let it end for it could be the worst thing you could of done if you care that much about him thats great i hope you have a great life with him =D
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