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Nikolita
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 12, 2009 12:45 am


Family Violence + Animal Abuse: Become Aware of the Link [pamphlet]


Recognize the Warning Signs

- Cruelty to animals may be a sign of other family violence, past, present, and future. It is also a crime in itself.
- Children’s intentional acts of cruelty towards animals should always be taken seriously. Cruelty is not a phase of normal childhood development. It may be a sign that the child needs help.

Quote:
“One of the most dangerous things that can happen to a child is to kill or torture an animal and get away with it.” – Margaret Mead



Animal Abuse

Signs of a family in trouble:

- People who abuse animals are more likely to abuse other family members. For example, they may abuse a wife, a child, or an elderly parent.
- Children who witness or experience abuse are more likely to abuse animals, both as children and as adults.
- Children who are abused are more likely to abuse animals, both as children and as adults.
- Children who abuse animals are more likely to commit violent crimes as adults.
- Adults who commit serial or mass criminal violence have often used animals as “rehearsal” in their adolescence.
- Family violence tends to move across generations and across victims, unless there is effective intervention.


How It Works

- Abusers use violence to get or keep power and control over other members of the family.
- Abusers may threaten and/or harm the family’s pets in order to control, frighten or punish family members.
- If the family members do not get help, the abuse becomes worse.


What It Means

- In violent homes, when animals are abused, people are at risk.
- In violent homes, when people are abused, animals are at risk.

Quote:
“Daddy got mad and threw the puppy down the garbage chute.” – Michael, 10


Quote:
“Because I was late getting home, my husband put the cat in the microwave.” – Lee, 25



Facts About Family Violence

Family violence is abuse that takes place in the family, in an intimate relationship, or in an situation of dependency or trust.

- Abusers use violence to establish power and control over those who are vulnerable because of their gender, age, ability, or other factors.
- The abuse can include: threats, emotional abuse, neglect, financial exploitation, destruction of property, injury to pets, physical assault, sexual assault, and homicide.
- Different forms of abuse often go together, and the pattern of abuse may be similar. People who abuse animals may also abuse a spouse, child, a senior, or a family member with a disability. In most abuse that happens in an intimate relationship, the woman is abused by her male partner or ex-partner.
- Animal abuse may be an early sign of an individual or family in trouble.

Quote:
“The devaluation of an animal is a kind of training ground for devaluing all life.” – Gloria Steinem



Working Together to Stop the Violence

You can help create a compassionate society:

- Be alert to the signs of family violence and animal abuse.
- Be aware that concern for a pet may make it difficult for a woman to leave an abusive relationship.
- Be aware that local agencies can provide support. For example, the local transition house or victim service may be able to help victims of violence develop a safety plan that includes the safety of their pets.
- Talk with friends, family and members of the community about the links between family violence and animal abuse.
- Show and encourage kindness and compassion for all living things. Be a positive role model. This sends an important message that caring counts.
- Teach and show children and adults that conflicts can be settled in non-violent ways.
- Be proactive in your community. You can advocate for or support:
o Proactive programs for young people that teach alternate behaviours to bullying, violence in dating relationships, and abuse of animals.
o Violence prevention policies and practice in schools, families and communities.
o Visible and consistent law enforcement to deal with violent behaviour against victims of all types.
o Improved animal welfare legistation.
o Treatment programs for animal abusers.
o Programs that demonstrate how caring can be learned.


Practical Steps We Can All Take

If you think any child is being mistreated, you have a legal duty to report it. Abuse or neglect by a parent, guardian, caregiver or person in a position of trust may result in injury or significant emotional or psychological harm to the child.

To report suspected abuse or neglect:

- Call the Helpline For Children: 310-1234 (toll-free, BC-wide, no area code needed). You do not need to identify yourself. Ask to speak to an intake child protection social worker.
- Do not hesitate to call because your suspicions are vague and you feel you need “more proof.” Describe what you suspect. A Ministry worker can investigate. For more information, see the website of the Ministry of Children and Family Development (www.mcf.gov.bc.ca).

Support anyone who might be abused by a family member. Encourage the person to call VictimLINK to find services in their community:

- Phone 1-800-563-0808 toll free from anywhere in BC. This service is free and confidential. Trained staff are available to provide help and information to victims of family and sexual violence and all other crimes.
- Translation services available in all the major languages spoken in BC.
- If you have a hearing or speech disability, call TELUS Message Relay Centre at 711 (TTY users), or Voice activated line (1-800-855-0511).
- Call police (911) if there is an immediate emergency.

Report animal abuse. Report all instances of suspected animal abuse to the BC SPCA or police. If you need the phone number of the local SPCA, call toll free: 1-800-665-1868. Local SPCA phone numbers are listed in the phone directory under Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.


Learning More About the Link

To find out more about the links between animal abuse and family violence, contact the BC SPCA Education Department: 1-800-665-1868. On the internet, go to www.spca.bc.ca.

For information about family violence and how to get help, contact VictimLINK: 1-800-563-0808. Ask about the supports available in your community to help victims and perpetrators of abuse. Also ask about information pamphlets you can distribute locally.

If anyone is abusing you or your children, you have a right to get the help and support you need. Phone VictimLINK: 1-800-563-0808.

If anyone is abusing your pet, call your local SPCA. If you need the number, call 1-800-665-1868.

The website www.bcifv.org carries current information on call lines.


Links and Resources

This pamphlet is one in a series of three. The other two are for animal care professionals and for victim services workers and justice system personnel. For copies of any of these materials, or to link with them online, go to:

BC Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (BC SPCA)
Phone: 604-681-7271
Toll free in BC: 1-800-665-1868
Fax: 604-681-7022
Website: www.spca.bc.ca
E-mail: info@spca.bc.ca

BC Veterinary Medical Association
Phone: 604-929-7090
Toll free in BC: 1-800-463-5399
Fax: 604-929-7095
Website: www.bcvma.org
E-mail: info@bcvma.org

The BC Institute Against Family Violence
Phone: 604-669-7055
Toll free in Canada: 1-877-755-7055
Fax: 604-669-7054
Website: www.bcifv.org
E-mail: bcifv@bcifv.org

BC/Yukon Society of Transition Houses
Phone: 604-669-6943
Fax: 604-682-6962
Website: www.bcysth.ca
E-mail: admin@bcysth.ca


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The information in this pamphlet belongs to the BC SPCA, and other organizations within BC. It is a part of Canada’s National Crime Prevention Strategy. I do not claim to own any of this information, nor am I attempting to profit from it.
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 10:36 am


Thank you for this! It's extremely informative, as always. :3

xBrokenMelodyx


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 11:49 am


xBrokenMelodyx
Thank you for this! It's extremely informative, as always. :3


You're most welcome. smile And thank you for the feedback!

Most of the information is the same, I just edited the old stuff (there were symbols instead of commas, no dash marks for points, etc) and added 4 newer pamphlets at the end.
PostPosted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 12:16 pm


heart

xBrokenMelodyx


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 7:43 am


Post 15 has been updated!
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