Long story short: he doesn't get treated very well at home.
He's pretty much ignored by everyone except his step-brother.
Who has been stealing money from him since he's lived at their home.
He has been staying at my house for basically, the entire month of July.
He knew that they were moving, but they didn't tell him when.
He left my home today to pack his things and when he got home, they had already moved his bed without any consideration of him returning home.
He also found a note where he keeps his money that his step-brother took $60 (from his graduation money) to pay off his probation and would be paying him back within two weeks (probably not going to happen).
His step-brother should be in jail right now. :/
But his mom bailed him out, so why couldn't she pay the money off?
Anyways,
my boyfriend said on the phone that he's getting sick of living there with them and kind of wants to move in with me. My parents have no problem with it (the only problem really is his dad).
But I just don't know if I can handle it.
I'm going to be in my Senior year of high school taking three advanced classes at the same time. I have enough trouble handling school on my own, but with him here I fear it may be much more difficult or even impossible for me to focus.
I really want him to move in, though. I'm almost hopeful that he does. He's already graduated and I'm going to have little to no time to spend with him during the school year.
He hasn't made any sort of decisions yet as to what he is going to do and he is very confused and upset about the situation.
Any advice as to something I could do to make him feel better or suggestions as to how I could possibly handle him living here and school?
Because I really love him (we have been going out for a pretty long time, so it's not like a week-long relationship) and I don't want to see him treated that way any longer.
He's pretty much ignored by everyone except his step-brother.
Who has been stealing money from him since he's lived at their home.
He has been staying at my house for basically, the entire month of July.
He knew that they were moving, but they didn't tell him when.
He left my home today to pack his things and when he got home, they had already moved his bed without any consideration of him returning home.
He also found a note where he keeps his money that his step-brother took $60 (from his graduation money) to pay off his probation and would be paying him back within two weeks (probably not going to happen).
His step-brother should be in jail right now. :/
But his mom bailed him out, so why couldn't she pay the money off?
Anyways,
my boyfriend said on the phone that he's getting sick of living there with them and kind of wants to move in with me. My parents have no problem with it (the only problem really is his dad).
But I just don't know if I can handle it.
I'm going to be in my Senior year of high school taking three advanced classes at the same time. I have enough trouble handling school on my own, but with him here I fear it may be much more difficult or even impossible for me to focus.
I really want him to move in, though. I'm almost hopeful that he does. He's already graduated and I'm going to have little to no time to spend with him during the school year.
He hasn't made any sort of decisions yet as to what he is going to do and he is very confused and upset about the situation.
Any advice as to something I could do to make him feel better or suggestions as to how I could possibly handle him living here and school?
Because I really love him (we have been going out for a pretty long time, so it's not like a week-long relationship) and I don't want to see him treated that way any longer.
