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BoxOfCuddles

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 25, 2009 9:41 pm


this is a very deep topic for me. so only read this if your willing to take an understanding to it and your willing to give an honest opion only. also FORUM assistance or mods. if i posted this in the wrong topic. please move it to the correct one. thanks..

okay. all i ever do is be nice to people. i try to be helpful i listen to peoples problems. and i try to be out going with girls and such. but it seems like no matter what im always pushed aside and put in the evil "friend" zone. and its rather annoying when you get told by that girl you like and she knows you like her that she likes another guy.... and i'm sick of it... and i always get told i should be open so i do that. STILL i get put in the friend zone... i keep quiet and to my self...STILL get put in the friend zone.....-.-"

i'm so lost and dont know what to do. im told im not out going enough. i dont have the right attitude...
PostPosted: Sat Jul 25, 2009 9:47 pm


You're in the right place - this counts as a 'sensitive' issue I think.

Listen - it's better to be in the friend zone than the jerk zone. Just be patient - you will find the right girl at some point to move out of there.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:40 am


I also try to be nice.
......
When there's occasion to be nice. But someone would have to be attempting to gouge their eyes out for me to notice and try to help.
*Sigh*
Apathy. I can't tell if it's a good or a bad thing.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 6:20 am


Quote:
- I tried to be nice.
- You killed our friends!
- I said "tried"!
ninja
Joke aside...

Being generally silent and popping out of nowhere to tease people, I try to not be too mean.

To be considered (perhaps) different or evil is better than being hated. Usually...

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 8:12 am


A lot of times during high school and stuff, girls go for the "bad boys." You know, the ones who get in trouble all the time, cheat on them, and treat them like crap. I have no idea why, but I've seen it happen soooo many times. It's not until they get older and actually start thinking about settling down that they finally start to date the nice guys who treat them right. Just be patient and wait for them to go through their shitty little phase or find one of the decent girls who know better.

A lot of times nice guys really do finish last, but at least they finish eventually? >.<
PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 9:12 am


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A lot of times during high school and stuff, girls go for the "bad boys." You know, the ones who get in trouble all the time, cheat on them, and treat them like crap. I have no idea why, but I've seen it happen soooo many times. It's not until they get older and actually start thinking about settling down that they finally start to date the nice guys who treat them right. Just be patient and wait for them to go through their shitty little phase or find one of the decent girls who know better.

A lot of times nice guys really do finish last, but at least they finish eventually? >.<


And they get the best prizes, in the end. ^_~

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 9:34 am


Are you asking these girls out and then they tell you you're in the friend zone or do you just assume because they won't make the first move? If you're assuming try to ask a girl out you like, get along with and who's single.

@LMF: >W< That's because the good boys are generally to afraid to ask the girl out or lack the confidence of the "bad" boy.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:42 am


Vajapocalypse
@LMF: >W< That's because the good boys are generally to afraid to ask the girl out or lack the confidence of the "bad" boy.

And girls still have the "I can change him" thing going on.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:45 am


Shiori Miko
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@LMF: >W< That's because the good boys are generally to afraid to ask the girl out or lack the confidence of the "bad" boy.

And girls still have the "I can change him" thing going on.
True, but that's just a bi-product of gender stereotyping -_-
PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 1:05 pm


Vajapocalypse
Are you asking these girls out and then they tell you you're in the friend zone or do you just assume because they won't make the first move? If you're assuming try to ask a girl out you like, get along with and who's single.

@LMF: >W< That's because the good boys are generally to afraid to ask the girl out or lack the confidence of the "bad" boy.


i've worked with her for a few months now, but i got to talk to her on like the day we got to work together and i gave her my phone so she could put her number in (was a bit afraid to ask for her number) but she put it in and all. and we texted and talked on aim and such. well a few days later i told her i liked her and she had a boyfriend so i kinda backed down, and just said okay. i guess ill wait and all. well she told me they broke up and all so i asked her out the following day. and she told me no, so i tried a month later and she said no. she told me she only sees me as a friend (-_- hence the reason i said im get put in the friend zone) and another thing she said "i want to wait to get to know you better" <--- i dont have a problem with that at all. thats fine, i can understand that much. the last thing she said was "i also want to wait so this way if we do have something then we can hit it off" <-- -_-

then i come to find out she likes some other guy and not me, and ive been nice, flirty, and let her talk to me about anything and listen.

then i liked this other girl (which i dont like any more coz i found out shes full of bull crap). and the gir(hayley) told me she got jealous when she found out and asked me "i got jealous, does that mean im attracted to you?" so i said i guess....

im not a very confident guy...ive been working on it here lately though. and i tend to doubt my self alot. also working on that

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 1:15 pm


If it makes you feel better, I've never had a first kiss or even a boyfriend.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 2:24 pm


Saxophone Hero
If it makes you feel better, I've never had a first kiss or even a boyfriend.


~jumps for joy~ gay guy? :3
(i likey if so)

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 6:23 pm


out casted loser
Saxophone Hero
If it makes you feel better, I've never had a first kiss or even a boyfriend.


~jumps for joy~ gay guy? :3
(i likey if so)

Yush. 3nodding
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