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 Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 2:24 pm
[I'm not sure if this is in the right subforum...] How sad is this: - Never had a kiss - Never had adate - Never had alcohol - Never had drugs - Never had a smoke - Never had sex (obviously, due to the kiss thing) - Never had a gf or bf I consider myself, like, 100% virgin or something like that. I have never done anything you would call "wild".
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Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 10:23 pm
It's not 'sad' or something to be ashamed of that you haven't experienced any of those things yet. Everyone does things at their own pace.
Some of those you may do tomorrow, and some you may never do.
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Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 11:57 pm
Well how old are you. You don't have to answer, but age can be a factor.
Also the alcohol, drugs, and smoking is all by choice. Just because you've never done it doesn't make you a loser. I mean, I know plenty of people who have never done any of these and they're completely awesome.
And it is cliche to hear about people having sex, but you would be surprised at how many teenagers don't have sex and how many actually wait until they are married.
Now the gf/bf, dating, and kissing is a little bit more understandable. But just bc you do those things doesn't make you cool. Your not gonna be an automatic jock bc you had p***y or c**k. But don't rush it. If you honestly want to lose your virginity and you don't care to who, you could find a slutty girl or any guy probably.
Just because you haven't done any of these, doesn't make you a loser. Just the typical stereotype of teens is that they are all horny mo fos that think that if you have sex your cool.
(sorry for the language, I will edit out if asked)
And btw, just bc you don't kiss someone doesn't mean you never had sex. I mean, I have never kissed a girl, but I have done it before.
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:09 am
- Never had a kiss
- Never had adate
- Never had alcohol
- Never had drugs
- Never had a smoke
- Never had sex (obviously, due to the kiss thing)
- Never had a gf or bf
SHOULD BE
- Never had a kiss/BUT seen my parents kiss, so noooo thanks.
- Never had a date/But for that, i got plenty of money.
- Never had Alcohal/So ive never been a drunken idiot.
- Never had illegal drugs/But i take the kind that help me when im sick, BOOYA!
- Never had a smoke/But been around smokers so much that ive probably inhaled a couple packs.
- Never had sex/But seen it on tv, movies, and computer so much that it feels like i have.
Never had a gf or be/But not getting one until i can have both at the same time.
^.^
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 10:23 am
I don't see why that would be sad. I've actually known quite a few people in their 20's who had never dated or kissed. Everyone is ready at different times.
As for not smoking, drinking, or doing illegal drugs, well that's a good thing. Those things are bad for your health and should be avoided anyway.
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:33 pm
I don't understand why you think that those things make you sad? I mean sure the things to do with relationships can be a bit ebrasive on the self esteem at time but Smoking, Drugs, drinks... not having those are good things. Not to mention that the other things are all things that happen When the time is right.
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Posted: Fri Aug 14, 2009 6:46 pm
Well it is fairly understandable. In our society, with the things we watch on tv about the people doing things which include smoking, drugs, and drinking and most of the time the characters on those tv series and movies have a good time without any of the common side effects of which is commonly presented to us in a world outside of these fantasies.
Now depending on what you surround yourself with more determines on how one would figure how to base its coolness level on. For most of us we can determine which is which and normally choose the best choice but there are some who seen so much of these kind of fantasies that they believe it is how society will determine them by.
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