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 Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:45 pm
what do u do when ur parents keep makign fun of u and its been 2 going to 3 yrs that they know ur bisexual
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 12:29 am
well if they already know then you got the hard part down. it's one thing when your parents bash gays not knowing their kid's one, but if they make fun of you for being gay, and they know you're gay, you need to tell them that you don't think it's funny and that it actually hurts you.
my dad tries making stupid jokes, but i just ignore him... like, entirely. i treat him like he's not a part of my life at all. it's gradual, but it's not a good idea, so i recommend just good ol' conversation and telling them how you feel about it.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 6:27 am
the_forgotten_thought well if they already know then you got the hard part down. it's one thing when your parents bash gays not knowing their kid's one, but if they make fun of you for being gay, and they know you're gay, you need to tell them that you don't think it's funny and that it actually hurts you. my dad tries making stupid jokes, but i just ignore him... like, entirely. i treat him like he's not a part of my life at all. it's gradual, but it's not a good idea, so i recommend just good ol' conversation and telling them how you feel about it. i do but they dotn care
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 11:12 am
neutral
*opens mouth to speak*
neutral
Stop caring what your parents think. Only respect their wishes that directly effect your life. Closet it up.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 3:47 pm
yeah, i kinda gotta agree with ikalos. i mean, you don't have to closet it up. you have a choice, though. they understand that your gay, so you should understand that they don't exactly accept it. it's a bit sad, but you knew the second that you realized you were "different" that they weren't gonna love you the same. you gotta either ignore them and their comments, you can treat them like crap and be the stereotypical terrible teenager (haha, which is tons of fun, but not exactly the best idea) or you can be as "normal" as possible and not include any details about the relationships of your life. kinda like being in the closet, i guess.
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Mister Futa rolled 2 6-sided dice:
4, 4
Total: 8 (2-12)
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Posted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 5:51 pm
You're in a lose-lose situation, even I'm not sure how to help it. Be yourself around friends (this goes along with the in the closet thing, I hate the closet) and around your parents, like they said, act differently.
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 9:28 am
Mister Futa You're in a lose-lose situation, even I'm not sure how to help it. Be yourself around friends (this goes along with the in the closet thing, I hate the closet) and around your parents, like they said, act differently. yea that true i do igonored them when they be mean and say s**t czu im bisexual that life and i wont be in a closet cuz i am who i am u cant chage that
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Posted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:37 pm
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