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 Posted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 2:22 pm
Hello everyone. Im a 17 year old guy who's about to turn 18. I have a girlfriend at the moment and we have a passionate relationship... but there may be a problem. I don't like sex..... at all. I mean i enjoy making her happy and being close to her, but the actually act of sex is just a total waste of time to me.. Im not normal am i?
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Posted: Sun Jun 28, 2009 9:05 pm
There's nothing wrong with it. smile Some people, teens and adults, simply aren't interested in sex. It's called being asexual (definition on dictionary.com: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/asexual). You can check out the Sexuality Subforum in this guild, or the Asexuality Guild on this guild's homepage if you'd like more information on asexuality.
If you're pretty sure that's not going to change though, you should sit down with your girlfriend and tell her. She might be ok with it, or she might find it an issue, but either way she should be told. Otherwise it might come out during a fight or some other awkward moment, making the situation worse. If you come clean with her, then you both can be open and honest about it, and handle it in a responsible way. 3nodding
You could also try talking to a counsellor to see why you don't have any interest in sex. Not because something's wrong with you (there's nothing wrong), but maybe to gain some insight into your psyche or to try and figure out why you are the way you are. There's also relationship counselling if you two want to try to work through the issue together.
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 1:10 am
Dude, I have almost the same problem, I like the foreplay, and using my hands, but as soon as sex comes into play, I suddenly lose interest in everything thats going on, I can still keep the hard on, but it usually leads to everything ending in a bust ((Not in a good way)) and I feel as if I did something wrong.
Its natural for some guys, theres nothing wrong.
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Posted: Tue Jul 21, 2009 1:22 am
you are normal sex does not have to be a focal point of a relationship
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Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2009 3:44 pm
You are as normal as it gets. Some would congratulate you because your body is making you "wait". Others would say it is a phase and you shouldn't rush into sex that young. I say it is whatever you feel and if you feel a certain way... then hey thats just you! be you.
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Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2009 3:48 pm
You are normal, because you dislike sexual activity doesn't make you "Not normal" it makes you...well you.
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