I understand, I've been gone for quite some time as well.
I define stupidity as a failure to see what's right in front of you,
Or the inability to think for yourself.
I think the world conspires against us, which is why "lady life" would rather us be blind to her devious ways. Though, I do think we bring a lot of this crap upon ourselves.
Tool, lol, I used to listen to them a lot.
I haven't in a long time though.
But yes, it does seem to fit the situation rather nicely.
This is defined perfectly by the word "laziness" or "blindness" you pick.