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 Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 11:58 am
ToeboysGurl ...that I'm almost gay. (yes almost because I still have a little attraction to the opp. sex XD) Well, my friends call it homoflexable. but yeah, still, I think I'm gonna tell my parents tonight, before I go to my friends drama production. Any advice from people who've already come out to there parents? It'd be greatly appreciated heart well i'd consider you still bi-sexual. if you still have feelings for the opp. sex....even if it's just a little feeling left. I'd tell my parents i'm bi-sexual..... but my dad is an X-Jehovah's witness and my mom's from Cambodia and says that being gay and or bi-sexual is wrong. i'm gonna tell em when i move out.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 12:03 pm
well another way.... it's like lying. just say someone spread rumor about you. if they find out before you get to tell em. when they almost found out about me being bi-sexual i said there was a rumor spread about me. it made me feel better.
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Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 2:44 pm
I didnt tell my parents, my mom was reading through something personal i wrote that i was in a pile of papers or something. I dont understand why she felt she had to read through it b/c she never reads through any of my other stuff especially sense that was titled journal and obviously personal. I'd rather they hadnt known b/c they know all my other secrets by snooping through my stuff and by friends that tell them embarassing/inappropriate things about me to them. My dad might know, my parents share like all the info about me. Anyway yeah my mom scares me, she's like Big Brother and she threatens to take away my stuff if i ever stand up to her bullying and wont let me do what i want with the stuff i own like the money i've been saving up my whole effing life. Anyway yeah like one of my secrets she found out was one of those where when parents find out they are supposed to get me a psychologist rather than yell at me a whole bunch and punish me. My life is none of her business and i wanted to keep it that way. Oh well i dont plan on seeing her ever again after i turn 18 she's just too unreasonable. Oh btw she was chill about it, she just said she wanted me to talk with one of her friends that is pro that kind of stuff. What annoys me though is like GSA is gay straight alliance and the straight ppl are the one's causing the problem and bisexuals are supporters yet they dont include them in the name. Lol oh well i wont join that club anyway or else i'd get labeled. Oops a lil lol lol sweatdrop . *huggles*
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Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 1:36 pm
Uther_Litebring I didnt tell my parents, my mom was reading through something personal i wrote that i was in a pile of papers or something. I dont understand why she felt she had to read through it b/c she never reads through any of my other stuff especially sense that was titled journal and obviously personal. I'd rather they hadnt known b/c they know all my other secrets by snooping through my stuff and by friends that tell them embarassing/inappropriate things about me to them. My dad might know, my parents share like all the info about me. Anyway yeah my mom scares me, she's like Big Brother and she threatens to take away my stuff if i ever stand up to her bullying and wont let me do what i want with the stuff i own like the money i've been saving up my whole effing life. Anyway yeah like one of my secrets she found out was one of those where when parents find out they are supposed to get me a psychologist rather than yell at me a whole bunch and punish me. My life is none of her business and i wanted to keep it that way. Oh well i dont plan on seeing her ever again after i turn 18 she's just too unreasonable. Oh btw she was chill about it, she just said she wanted me to talk with one of her friends that is pro that kind of stuff. What annoys me though is like GSA is gay straight alliance and the straight ppl are the one's causing the problem and bisexuals are supporters yet they dont include them in the name. Lol oh well i wont join that club anyway or else i'd get labeled. Oops a lil lol lol sweatdrop . *huggles* You poor pumkin!! gonk crying cry I feel so sorry for you. * hugs*
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Posted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 1:57 pm
I haven't told them....but I think that it would be ok with them because I was scared of what they would think when I told them that I am in the GSA at my school.But they are fine with that and I know only 1-2 straight people are in it but my school knows its pretty much all bi so it should be GSBA. lol and the thing is my new friends are the ones who know I'm bi,but my old friends don't because I'm also scared to tell them.
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 3:56 pm
i can't give you alot of advice...cuz my mom would be a real hypocrite if she didnt approve (i lived with my mom and her gf for 9 yrs) anyway, i told my mom when i was 14 and she didnt care, but she advised me to wait to tell my dad, and i did, i used the "sneaky technique" lol i started off telling him it was a really close friend of mine, then i asked him what he thought of bi-sexual and gays, he said they were just like everyone else...then i told him that the friend i was talking about was me..and he was just like "ok, you're never having girls orguys in your room" and i said ok, cuz all my gf are good at playing straight...so i hope that helps you a little bit... *huggles* good luck hun!!
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 2:52 pm
sailor_mercury_metal i can't give you alot of advice...cuz my mom would be a real hypocrite if she didnt approve (i lived with my mom and her gf for 9 yrs) anyway, i told my mom when i was 14 and she didnt care, but she advised me to wait to tell my dad, and i did, i used the "sneaky technique" lol i started off telling him it was a really close friend of mine, then i asked him what he thought of bi-sexual and gays, he said they were just like everyone else...then i told him that the friend i was talking about was me..and he was just like "ok, you're never having girls orguys in your room" and i said ok, cuz all my gf are good at playing straight...so i hope that helps you a little bit... *huggles* good luck hun!! it did a little thanx ^^ heh my first gf stayed the night beginning of october (homecoming dance at my school), my parents never suspected a thing, which is kinda bad (for them, not me) lol.
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 2:57 pm
Chellie isForever Nirvana I haven't told them....but I think that it would be ok with them because I was scared of what they would think when I told them that I am in the GSA at my school.But they are fine with that and I know only 1-2 straight people are in it but my school knows its pretty much all bi so it should be GSBA. lol and the thing is my new friends are the ones who know I'm bi,but my old friends don't because I'm also scared to tell them.
here I can give you a little advice. (since I've been through this and I'm to the point where I really dont care who knows at school) Don't be scared, if they are your true friends it shouldnt change a single thing. I got kinda lucky and ended up by complete accident in a group where we all have different sexuall orientations *nods* ...and at the time I had no idea that they were lol. So don't sweat it. okies? ^^ *hugs*
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 3:01 pm
killer_of_the_dawn ToeboysGurl ...that I'm almost gay. (yes almost because I still have a little attraction to the opp. sex XD) Well, my friends call it homoflexable. but yeah, still, I think I'm gonna tell my parents tonight, before I go to my friends drama production. Any advice from people who've already come out to there parents? It'd be greatly appreciated heart well i'd consider you still bi-sexual. if you still have feelings for the opp. sex....even if it's just a little feeling left. I'd tell my parents i'm bi-sexual..... but my dad is an X-Jehovah's witness and my mom's from Cambodia and says that being gay and or bi-sexual is wrong. i'm gonna tell em when i move out. I am lol its just sometimes easier to say I am then explain that I'm Bi sexual with homosexual tendancies. Plus, theres not alot of good looking/nice guys that live around my area sooooooo until I get out of here I'm bassiclly gay lol.
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Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 9:23 am
kawaiikichan I guess it depends on the parents. I won't tell my parents until I have moved far far far away. Aye, my mother is holier than though, so I will not tell until I'm out of the house, hehe. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 3:26 pm
I feel so sry with people with str8 parents,
my moms a lesbian and i live with her so it was really easy to tell them
they would understand no matter wat so it was easy im so sry with those of you parents who dont understand!
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